guy032 Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 I met her on the street and we were having good time so I took her number and we decided to meet the next day. the day after she told me she is really busy and has just an hour or less to meet, so she offered me tommorow as an alternative. We've met at the park and it was great. I brought a guitar and played to her songs while singing with her and we talked a lot about each other. we were french kissing at the middle and the end of the date. the next day she had an exam so I wished her good luck and asked her if she wants to play billiards tommorow (she had told me at the first date she is really good at it and I told her I would invite her to play at my house). she said she'd love to but she has something going on at noon and a big dinner (friday) so she can't. I asked if she wants on saturday to which she replied with OK then on saturday I asked her if she has a time and she said she has a show of her cousin she needs to go to and she thinks she would be back too late for meeting (12:00pm). she offered me to meet on sunday. then, I asked on sunday if we're meeting and she said yes. a few hours later I asked if it's ok at 9:00pm to pick her and suddenly she told me she is really sorry and feel bad about it but she has an exam tomorrow morning and asked me if I want to meet her tomorrow and promised she won't cancel again. I told her OK but I don't know what to do. Should I ask her once again today if we are meeting this evening or just leave it to her to confirm our date?
PegNosePete Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 You've made definite plans so I would leave it. If she has to cancel then it's up to her to inform you. But after this amount of mucking around I would be reaching the end of my patience; if she cancels again then I'd probably be done. Unreliability is not an attractive trait.
Author guy032 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Posted June 16, 2014 If she has to cancel then it's up to her to inform you. but if she doesn't ask about our date today then I should just forget about it and not ask her what's going with our date?
Wisecrack Posted June 16, 2014 Posted June 16, 2014 9pm? Billiards at your place? Maybe she's assuming you want something other than billiards from her. School is a reasonable excuse but if a girl is interested in you, she will find the time. It sounds like things are going alright. Give it a few days rest then I'd ask her out again. She does not sound like the quick type mate so if you are interested in her, you'd better bring your A game and date her for a bit longer.
Author guy032 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Posted June 16, 2014 up to now we have not talked more than a few words (schedule our dates) before and after the date via text messages and I always was the one to initiate conversation. so I'm worried she got used to me starting the conversation with her and if I won't start any conversation she might think I don't want to go out today.
Author guy032 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Posted June 16, 2014 more 5 hours it would be here 9:00pm. I've yet to receive a message from her. should I ask her about the evening?
Author guy032 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Posted June 16, 2014 9pm? Billiards at your place? Maybe she's assuming you want something other than billiards from her. you probably right. I asked her about tonight and she asked if I wanna come to meet her at the port at 10:00pm after she will finish dinner with her friends over there. I guess we would have another romantic evening on the beach
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