grapesandmilk Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 i think i've fallen for my work colleague. i hope it's just a crush though. anyway.. i haven't got a slightest idea if she's just being friendly with me(sometimes overly friendly) and im imagining stuff or she feels something back. Today she was super friendly at first, was happy when she found out our work schedules match, talked a lot, etc. But then something clicked later and it seemed like she was mad at me? I think she wasn't actually mad at me, but something changed her mood and then she seemed really unresponsive/sarcastic. some more + signs she constantly asks if i have a gf overly friendly teasing What am i supposed to think of all this? Maybe someone can share some insight.
Frank2thepoint Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 she constantly asks if i have a gf This is funny, because it sounds like you never answered the question, and she pesters you for an answer.
Author grapesandmilk Posted June 13, 2014 Author Posted June 13, 2014 This is funny, because it sounds like you never answered the question, and she pesters you for an answer. i should've phrased it right. what i meant is that she's asking if i have found anyone yet. i told her that i don't have a gf the first time.
Keenly Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 Next time she asks if you have a girlfriend, tell her you will after you take her out a few times. 4
d0nnivain Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 If she's trying to find out if you have a GF, she likes you. The fact that you never gave her a staight answer made her think you aren't interested. In trying to remain professional in the face fo what she perceived as rejection, she's coming off cold. Ask her to grab a drink with you after work. From there you can determine if you want to risk all that is entailed with a work place romance.
Author grapesandmilk Posted June 13, 2014 Author Posted June 13, 2014 Next time she asks if you have a girlfriend, tell her you will after you take her out a few times. heheh. but what about the hot and cold thing? would a girl act like that with someone she has a crush on?
Keenly Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 heheh. but what about the hot and cold thing? would a girl act like that with someone she has a crush on? Dude I have no idea what you are talking about. I don't participate in games like hot and cold.
Author grapesandmilk Posted June 13, 2014 Author Posted June 13, 2014 Dude I have no idea what you are talking about. I don't participate in games like hot and cold. i wish it was this easy for me at this moment lol.
Frank2thepoint Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 i wish it was this easy for me at this moment lol. Yes it is just that easy. Here is an example. Girl: Hey do you have a girlfriend? You: Yes, you. Then you exchange some pleasantries, take her out, you two kiss, and 30 years later you two are grandparents.
Targetlock Posted June 13, 2014 Posted June 13, 2014 (edited) Yes it is just that easy. Here is an example. Girl: Hey do you have a girlfriend? You: Yes, you. Then you exchange some pleasantries, take her out, you two kiss, and 30 years later you two are grandparents. hmm, guess it is simple, it just takes the right girl and timing i guess and quit dancing around the bush so to speak, you just got to ask yourself one question, do you like her? if the answer is yes, ask her out or wait for the right moment like as per above. Edited June 13, 2014 by Targetlock
Frank2thepoint Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 hmm, guess it is simple, it just takes the right girl and timing i guess Yes, and not afraid of being a bit bold. 1
todreaminblue Posted June 14, 2014 Posted June 14, 2014 Next time she asks if you have a girlfriend, tell her you will after you take her out a few times. lol....classic
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