addyBroken Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 (edited) And its hurting like hell!!! To lose the one you truly love for a second time is a killer. She was so cold on the phone. I even broke down. Tried my best not to but when you got pure emotions running though my veins. Basically Id become very negative over the last few months. Always moaning about work and stuff. In truth she was right... I want to win her back but I know such a thing is mission impossible. I've just got to try and move on and show her that I will be the best man I can be. Got to keep it together :( will post updates Edited June 10, 2014 by addyBroken
jbelle6 Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 And its hurting like hell!!! To lose the one you truly love for a second time is a killer. She was so cold on the phone. I even broke down. Tried my best not to but when you got pure emotions running though my veins. Basically Id become very negative over the last few months. Always moaning about work and stuff. In truth she was right... I want to win her back but I know such a thing is mission impossible. I've just got to try and move on and show her that I will be the best man I can be. Got to keep it together :( will post updates This is exactly what you need to do. No begging, no calls, texts none of that crap. Read the No Contact thread, I found it very very helpful. Exercise a lot, I found it made me less depressed and I felt better about myself. Also, don't blame just yourself, you will at first but as the weeks go by you'll realize that though you had some faults, so did she. I'm very sorry you have to deal with this. It's so terrible the first few days but it really does get better. Promise. 1
Author addyBroken Posted June 11, 2014 Author Posted June 11, 2014 This is exactly what you need to do. No begging, no calls, texts none of that crap. Read the No Contact thread, I found it very very helpful. Exercise a lot, I found it made me less depressed and I felt better about myself. Also, don't blame just yourself, you will at first but as the weeks go by you'll realize that though you had some faults, so did she. I'm very sorry you have to deal with this. It's so terrible the first few days but it really does get better. Promise. Thank you. Its just not fair that anything I love I ruin. She means the world to me. So does her three amazing kids. I am now never gonna see them again am I That's a hard pill to swallow. I made some mistakes. Only human. Had a lot of stuff on my mind. Had she been a true partner she might have helped. Not just let it build up and then blow me off. Do you think there could ever be a second chance. One thing she did point out. That I said I was gonna get a car and never did. That I was gonna change jobs and never did. i just got bogged down. I feel like proving her wrong. Showing her who I really am and who I can become. arrrrrrrrrrh brain wont switch off
triniechu Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 I'm going through the same thing as well. It's been a week since I my ex and I broke up. It's so hard. So far I've contacted him twice!! ughhh! He knows how much i'm hurting and how much I miss him. I know he misses me too and he told me last night he's been crying like crazy! But he feels that we both still need more time and distance. I'm not friends with him on FB and I also blocked him on my phone. Just incase he decides to call or text me. I'm just so weak when it comes to him. I miss him so much.
orangetree Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 I know what you're going through. My ex broke up with me 15 days ago and ever since we're on NC. I miss him like crazy and it hurts like hell- But I'm keeping myself busy, I do a lot of sports, I just ran my first marathon, I work a lot, I bought a bicycle and I take driving lessons (I'm 26 bit I don't have one haha). I recommend you to do the same- Keep yourself busy, you're not just living for her. Remember the time before you met her, you didn't need her, you don't need her now to be happy. If she really loves you she'll come back, but don't wait for it, live your life, life is too short. And I agree, it also hurts to not see the people who are involved in the relationship anymore. In your case the kids, in my case his mother and aunt who I was really close to and who felt like a second family to me.
Author addyBroken Posted June 11, 2014 Author Posted June 11, 2014 I know what you're going through. My ex broke up with me 15 days ago and ever since we're on NC. I miss him like crazy and it hurts like hell- But I'm keeping myself busy, I do a lot of sports, I just ran my first marathon, I work a lot, I bought a bicycle and I take driving lessons (I'm 26 bit I don't have one haha). I recommend you to do the same- Keep yourself busy, you're not just living for her. Remember the time before you met her, you didn't need her, you don't need her now to be happy. If she really loves you she'll come back, but don't wait for it, live your life, life is too short. And I agree, it also hurts to not see the people who are involved in the relationship anymore. In your case the kids, in my case his mother and aunt who I was really close to and who felt like a second family to me. I cant. I'm hurting so much I cant do anything for my dumb brain is so active. And the time before we got together wasn't the greatest. I lost a brother. He killed himself. And that's just it. I didn't lose just a lover. I lost a family. Those three kids mean the world to me. I'm now regretting saying I wont bother her again. Feel like I just gave up on em. If you love someone your meant to fight for em right ? I know she was cold but its not the first time she was like that and we got back together. arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrh what can i do. Driving me crazy. Feel so alone
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