Kar_M Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 I wanted some advice. About 2 weeks ago I met this guy at a friends barbecue through a friend and ended up going back to his place - after a lot of persuasion from him, although he did stress that he was a gentleman. We had been drinking most of the day and I was pretty drunk, but we didn't have sex - although he probably could have persuaded me as I was pretty wasted and was getting into things, but he was actually as he said, a total gentleman. Anyway, the next day I felt horrible (as in hungover, wanted to shower, brush my teeth) and just wanted to be at home and said quite quickly that I was going to call a cab. He was a little bit affectionate but I think could tell I just wanted to go. We didn't swap phone numbers and now have no way of getting in touch with each other unless we randomly bump into each other as we are both in the same town. I just wanted to know general opinions, do people generally think he was just trying to get laid after a night of drinking or do you think there could be a possibility that he did actually like me and could have wanted something more. I'm thinking if I wasn't so aloof he might have asked to see me again....
d0nnivain Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Both. Reach out for the host & get his # or look him up on FB if you want to find him.
Author Kar_M Posted June 12, 2014 Author Posted June 12, 2014 Thanks oDonnivan - just not sure if i'm chasing him and if he's not been in touch with me and just wanted sex then will I look a bit silly for contacting him .... Can't figure this one out!
d0nnivain Posted June 12, 2014 Posted June 12, 2014 You will find out when you deal with him while you are sober. I'm not suggesting chasing him but a small effort to contact him once is dignified.
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