Mjm1014 Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 Okay so I met a girl on Tinder about a week ago, and up until our date she was sending me cute texts, seemed to want to talk on the phone etc...we talked a ton. Last night we went on our first date. I had a good time, lots of conversation and she wouldn't stop smiling the whole time. At the end of the date I went in for a kiss and she accepted. When I tried pulling away from her when I thought the kiss was over she said Wait, and kept wanting to kiss me! Since the date I've hardly heard from her...one word texts all day and when I called her tonight she seemed bored and didn't seem to want to talk and she said she was tired so I let her go. My instinct all day was telling me she didn't want to talk though. I've been confused in her change of behavior so I asked her via text after the call because I'm sick of wondering how she feels. She said "all I can say is that we had good conversation and that you're cute..it's going to take a few more dates to see if I'm interested. If you don't understand I'm sorry." I totally get that but is it weird of me to not understand the change of behavior if I'm still somewhat qualifying...I feel like by now after a date I have some sort of idea if I like someone and if I do I still talk to them? Her lack of interest makes me want to throw in the towel. All of a sudden no effort but says next weekend we can hang out MAYBE. Should I just go no contact a few days and if I don't hear find someone more into me or do I totally take this as rejection. It just confuses me because I asked her if I could see her soon over texts and she said "for sure"
todreaminblue Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 mixed signals huh......if i kiss aguy i know i want to take things further its simple as.Sounds like a game to me.Do you find them boring or more confusing?
dory Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 I can't say what's going on on her end, but my guess is you're in the running but she's lining up dates with others. Nothing wrong with that style of dating initially, just be aware that that's what's possibly going on at this stage. 1
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