Economist70 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 My girlfriend dumped me because she was leaving the state to study at University. When we began to date, she amalgamated into my friendship group and began to text them (Something I didn't have a problem with because I'm not the insecure type and have similar contact with my friend's partners too). When we broke up, she said she'd like to remain friends and that "I could do better than her." After the break up, contact on her part was minimal. But she continued to text my friends; which did make me feel jealous and like she wasn't serious on her offer to be friends. After she'd left, she began dating one of my friends. They'd met and it took a text from me to the friend to confirm they were a couple. He said that it wasn't something that had happened spontaneously and that they were uncertain how to reveal themselves. I've since cut both people out of my life. I was down in the dumps for ages about it and it was a massive kick in the guts that when we dated she was all secret about it but she's all public with the former friend. It's been two months now and while I'm feeling better, it still plays on my mind. I know it's pointless for me to feel down because they're both happy and probably not thinking about me at all. But it also sucks just thinking about the whole situation and makes me feel used.
learning_slowly Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 On the plus side, with him being so disloyal, he would not have been a great friend in your life. So it's better you found out sooner. She's obviously a girl who jumps from one relationship to another. I would be surprised if they are still together in a few years or less. Look at all the things you can do now that she got in the way of, and start doing them. Remember nobody is perfect and she definitely wasn't. 1
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