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Not a question but It's annoying, I've moved on.

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Not a question but It's annoying, I've moved on.

 

are they harrassing you to come back ....gloating maybe? are you angry?

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are they harrassing you to come back ....gloating maybe? are you angry?

 

Not angry just annoyed because I wanna move on and with the annoyance it makes it near impossible

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You posting here kinda makes me think you haven't really moved on. When you do, you won't care what they think.

 

So what should I do to show I'm over them?

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So what should I do to show I'm over them?

 

Don't speak to them, don't message them, don't speak about them to people they know, don't go out of your way to bump into them, don't spend time with them. Focus on your own life. Don't even try and persuade them you ARE over them, if you were over them you wouldn't care or have a reason to try.

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Don't speak to them, don't message them, don't speak about them to people they know, don't go out of your way to bump into them, don't spend time with them. Focus on your own life. Don't even try and persuade them you ARE over them, if you were over them you wouldn't care or have a reason to try.

 

I don't do any of these things

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Imagine two people:

 

One is annoyed that his ex refuses to believe he's over her.

 

The other hears this about his ex, and laughs and doesn't care.

 

Which would you say is "more completely over her"?

 

Which one are you?

 

Which one do you want to be?

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[quote=Trimmer;5739114

 

Which one do you want to be?

 

Neitherrrrrrrrrr

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Not a question but It's annoying, I've moved on.

 

 

 

Which is why you made a post about it.

 

 

Methinks the lady doth protest too much.

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Neitherrrrrrrrrr

 

ah, then I think you'd better define "moving on" for us from your own perspective. ..

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ah, then I think you'd better define "moving on" for us from your own perspective. ..

 

Going about my business with none of the unnecessary

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You are not over him, even if you would want to.

Kinda obvious, and it's just my gut feeling.

 

Advice, ignore him completely, don't get phased by what he does.

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Nope, I'm over it.

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Not angry just annoyed because I wanna move on and with the annoyance it makes it near impossible

 

Not a question but It's annoying, I've moved on.

 

So you're annoyed because you've moved on, and you're also annoyed because it's nearly impossible to move on.

 

What are you annoyed at, again?

 

Nope, I'm over it.

You're over it? Then why do you have two separate reasons to be annoyed (see above.)

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