Eaygirl Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Me bf dumped me a month ago and moved out of the apartment we share. We have seen each other one a week,..the first time was so that he could get his stuff....the second time we had sex three times and he spent the whole day with me.....the third time we went to the movies on a Friday night, but he didn't try to touch me at all....I've begged and pleaded and called a million times for a second chance..he responds to everything unless I went on a texting binge and sent 60 in a row. He says he doesn't want a realtionship with me at all. He doesn't want to jump into the same relationship where we were fighting all the time... He says he tried and We just don't work. He said we don't like the same things... I asked if he wanted to go to a baseball game he said no, he'd rather take the dog to the beach with me.. He loves baseball and I've been trying to show him that I just want to have fun and stop fighting..he said I need to stop texting so much because he tells me the same thing of not wanting a relationship over and over, and I keep asking. I said ok I won't text you or ask to hang out unless you ask me.. He said that was my problem, that he didn't ask me to stop texting, he said not to text me so much and when I say I won't text him at all, I am going to the extreme and I don't see a middle....I'm curious why does he still want to talk to me and see me, if he's told me to move on and that's it over? Does anyone see any sign of reconciliation in there? I started going to therapy right after we broke up, but he said that he told me to do that for years and I just never did it..he also tells me I could have had it all but I messed it up by continuing to fight.. Is he rubbing it in my face? What can I do?
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