BarackObama Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 So yesterday, one of my friends(call A) invited me for beer in the evening. Later I got call from him that I can't come because he and his gf are going out. Found out that my friend (A) and his gf were enjoying the night with my other friend (call B) and his gf. Why I was left out? Is this because i don't have a partner? BTW,My friendship with them is extremely good.
d0nnivain Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Couples tend to do stuff with other couples. In the begining of romantic relationships sometimes friends have less time for their friends because they are spending so much time with their new BF/GF 1
daisydook Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 It probably was a couples night type thing. He still shouldn't have done that to ya, however, he probably figured you would be ok with it and cancelled. I think it is normal to go out on double dates. What I dont like is going back on plans you made with me and ditching me for new plans. That's all. I would say it has everything to do with the fact that you are single and not in a relationship. Yes, people change, and hopefully they change for the better. I would like to hope you would support his relationship growing strong, and I sure hope he learns it isn't cool to ditch you for ANYONE, when you two have made plans. If it is a one time thing, then I wouldn't worry about it, so don't mention it and move on as if nothing happened. If it does start happening, have a chat with him. Tell him it just upsets you when he makes plans with you and cancels on you. Right now, they are trying to get to know one another. Be happy for him It will all even itself out.
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