Smiths1991 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 I've been seeing this girl who is a perfect fit for me for about 4 minths now. Things gave been alright I haven't had a girlfriend in a while so sometimes I act kinda weird like nervous but whatever I'm getting over it now. So weve been seeing eachother for 4 months so about a week before my birthday I planned on asking if she wanted to be my girlfriend so the day comes and I throw a party at my apartment. The party is pretty great and everything's cool then sinething happened out of nowhere. My buddy steps out if the bathroom with zipper undone my girlfriend sees this and leans and flicks his zipper with her finger and sort if smiles I saw this and took it as a joke so I ignored it but realized should bring it up later sometime. So I go on with my business, so two days later my buddy tells me that he has to tell me something about my girl so he brings up the zipper thing but says that something else happened, he told me that after dhe flicked his zipper he said thanks I didn't notice ànd she replied to that with "I wouldn't of noticed if I wasn't interested" I told my girlfriend and she immediately broke down and started crying and told me that she would stop drinking I told her if giver her another chance but we just broke up lat week cause I couldn't see her the same way anymore I'm so depressed though cause she was perfect to me. All I wanna do is find someone like her. She won't admit to doing it and makes up excuses like I didn't mean it that way and that's not me I would never and I've never cheated nor ever wanted too I don't know what to do.
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 She obviously wasn't that perfect if she's going around making sexually suggestive comments to other men, and your friend no less! Blaming alcohol for her behavior, however true it MAY have been is also just an an easy cop out in my opinion. Just remember that drunk words are sober thoughts. Tread carefully with this girl. Good luck. 2
David87 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Thanks man Michelle is a lady dude Your girlfriend is not ....put the puzzle together . 2
No Limit Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Be glad you're rid of her. Boy, I could type that into any post regarding drunk almost-cheaters.
d0nnivain Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Drunks do stupid things. I'm a flirty girl . . . but that was over the top, drunk or sober. While I have been known to compliment a friend's guy or another random man, any touching stays in G rated areas. If you decide to give her another chance, you have to watch for repeat behavior. If you see it no 3rd chances. You would also be justified in breaking it off now because she hit on your friend & at your birthday party -- very not cool. What do you want to do? What's your heart telling you? What's your head telling you? Which decision is going to make you the happiest?
LifeIsGreat Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Dated someone who showed similar signs (although in a different way) within 3 months of us dating. All my friends said I should move on since her behavior was a serious red flag. I ignored and decided to forgive, forget, and move on. Stayed together another 9 months before breaking up. A red flag like this within a short time should give serious pause..... and you should probably just move on before you get too attached. The future break-up would be harder than just breaking up now.
jbelle6 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Yikes, I would question what would have happened if you were not present? I also don't like how she's trying to blow it off like it's nothing.
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