Red123 Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Thank you. Although I still stand that I need to own my stuff, we have decided that this isn't the right fit for us and are going to look into someone else. Your last statement about the advice given and feeling comfortable is what has prompted the decision. The counsellor has basically only offered IC, channeling anger and separation as tools to work through this. She also appears to want to focus on the R not the A. We both feel that we went to work through his A first, she has a portion of the story and didn't ask for anymore just jumped into what to do to be a better couple, you know spend time together and read after the affair. Both things I can do without her professional help. We are only 2 sessions in as she cancelled the two before this last one that was so difficult. So we are ok to try someone new. Thanks for your support
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