Why?

[Bdrmsb]

My husband and I had a bad breakup after four years of marriage and he meet a girl right away. It's been four months. I've asked him to come back and try to work it out. We have two babies. He said he moved on.

He called me saying he wanted to come home. He doesn't drive, so I went to get him. Once he got in my car that other girl called and he told her were he was. He got out of my car and said sorry He had you come, that he is confused and not happy with anyone.

How could anyone be so cruel? Why did he do this? What else do you think I can expect based on his actions? And how should I react?

I'm so thankful that my children are too young to understand.

[learning_slowly]

It seems to me as though he is not grown up enough to deal with a family, so he is chasing somebody single. She probably let him down and so he told you he wanted to come home.

 

Maybe she then texted him and he changed his mind. No man who is worthy of your love would desert his children like that.

 

If you possibly can, move on. But I imagine it's really hard with children involved. Whatever happens, don't be walked over again. Make him get the bus or a taxi!

[chados]

only me guessing now. you are both young. you decided to marry each other way to fast. he wanted to try his wings and you ended up being hurt.

 

 

or hes just immature enough to hurt his family by leaving you for another woman he barely knows.

 

whatever the reason might be its never your fault remember that. i have no doubts that they wont last either. to jump in to a relationship coming from a marriage with kids isnt easy. either he dumps her or she isnt ready for where he is coming from.

 

if you ask me how to get him back my answer would simply be. do not chase him let him realize his mistakes.

 

if you ask me what i really think. forget about this guy and let him realize his mistakes. move on and find someone that will respect his family.

Edited June 2, 2014 by chados