FrankW Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 So this is my story. I am sorry for my bad English, but this isn't my native language. We broke up with my girlfriend before 3 months. I made a stupid joke about a girl which made her furious, but this is because the last year I had a lot of problems at work, money, etc. which lowered my attention to her. We were together for about 4 years. We were living together for 2. And the beggining I made all those mistakes - begging, arguing. She went living with a couple, boy and girl and was really distant and cold. I went to NC for a month, than reinitiated contact. She begin responding to all my messages, and sometime started sending me jealousy fb messages. I took out her for a lunch and she acted really warm, hugged me, kissed me on the cheeks, we started talking about us, she said only once that she doesn't want to be with me and said she loves me and said she's afraid that she wouldn't meet someone in a so deep relationship anymore. She said time will show. But she also said that she doesn't have the time and emotions to make a desicion this month. The next day she came to the theatre I am working, I had an opening night. She looked really sad and confused after we separated I saw the tears in her eyes. We met again next sunday and she started crying from the beginning. She said it's really hard for her "Loving me and not be with me". She allowed me some hugs and kisses on the neck. We also laughed, talked about work and other things. I said to her I think we could work out things, I was also going to therapy, asked her "Did we ended it?" She said "I don't know". And wanted to walk alone. Now I am abroad for 10 days and she takes care for my cat. She seemed very friendly yesterday, when I gave her back the keys from our appartment. I am a little confused with all this ambivalent signs. But as I see talking and meeting with her, warms her. Is there any hope?
Mr.Pine Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 And the beggining I made all those mistakes - begging, arguing. Ummm...nope!
Author FrankW Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 Just because of this... I don't think it caused much damage
chados Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 i dont really understand what you are saying. shes taking care of your cat, youre still kinda together? theres always a chance. nobody here can tell you the correct answer. but we can guess. we are all different. the only tip i can give you since i dont understand where you two are at is. want someone but dont need anyone to live your life. and make sure everyone knows that. dont be afraid to say no and be in control of the relationship just as much as your girl is.
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