iloveemily Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 okae so here's the full story nd i need your advice LS.please i need ur help ..bear with me if it long. me and my gf have been together for about a year now. She is the most amazing and wonderful thing that ever happened to me.we both are age 19. evrythng between us is just perfect except one thing .my stupid fytng tendency.neway she never used to fight with me and olways used to bear with my behavior , ,but i never understood how much pain i am giving her by fighting with her over petty issues ech and evry day...after each and evry time i would say the same thing and say tht ," this is the last time i fought with u and it wont ever happen again" . well i was a loving and caring bf in ol other ways and thats y i think she put up with this for so long..i took her to dates ,movies,gave her gifts and make her feel spcl bt then i wud ruin those moments with a fyt and wud tell her rubbish which i realise now,:(:( . Neway after the most recent fight she said she had enough and she cant put up with ths nemre...and all hell broke loose on me. No matter how much i tried she said that she trusted me ech n evry tym and believed that i wont fight but still i did . now she wanted nothng to do with me.this happend a few days back. i realised wat i had done ...night aftr night i cud nt sleep and cried thnkng of how stupid i was..i begged her pleaded with her to consider me . Last day we met up i and i begged her ,i touchd her feet aftr going down on my knees and said that just give ths 1 final chance, if i fyt with u 1 jst 1 more tym u thn i will cnsider myself a looser and go away.she said prmse me if u fyt just 1 more tym for stupid thngs thn u wont stop me again.i promised. bt she still does nt trust me cmpletly and is afriad to open up to me lyk before..how do i show her that i can be trusted and it wont happn again lyk that? what do i need to do?
Trimmer Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 okae so here's the full story nd i need your advice LS.please i need ur help ..bear with me if it long. Actually, I started to read, and it sounds like you have a compelling story, but I couldn't bear with you - not because of the length, but because of your use of "text-speak." Just too much work to interpret. LS posts are not limited to 160 characters, and there is absolutely NO advantage to doing that - quite the opposite, in fact - as people will generally pass by posts which are this hard to read. If you'd be willing to repost using full English words, capitalization, and punctuation to make it possible to read, it would likely get you a much wider range of responses. 2
Darren Steez Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 Couldn't read it, try writing properly. Thanks 1
flight E Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 First wat causes the fights, second, why on earth will you be on your knees begging. Are you a slave talking to a princess. I don't think you problem is the fighting. I think you have shown this girl how weak you are and she is losing attraction. If you don't want to lose her, that is if you haven't already, then man up. Discuss y you fight. The next time a fight is to start and you are damn sure it's her fault, excuse yourself and walk away. Your inexperience will make you lose your girl. Please stop supplicating like a beggar
jbelle6 Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Actually, I started to read, and it sounds like you have a compelling story, but I couldn't bear with you - not because of the length, but because of your use of "text-speak." Just too much work to interpret. LS posts are not limited to 160 characters, and there is absolutely NO advantage to doing that - quite the opposite, in fact - as people will generally pass by posts which are this hard to read. If you'd be willing to repost using full English words, capitalization, and punctuation to make it possible to read, it would likely get you a much wider range of responses. Amen. Proven it often takes more time than using qwerty.
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