Stay Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 I'm curious on what a women's take is on this but any opinion is appreciated. So I've been talking to this girl for a couple days after getting her number when I was out. I don't know if I could really call this a one night stand since it really isn't one with how things unraveled. After a few days we got really sexual with talking and that led to us hanging out a bit which led to us having intercourse. Of course my nerves got to me and it lasted a while but not long enough to get it done. I was annoyed and disappointed with myself because it's not the first time lately. But from what I know it's fairly normal for that to happen. Anyways we ended up just hanging out and talking some more after. I was going to leave but she wanted me to hang around and when I left we gave each other a very passionate kiss and smile. I'd like to see more of her and I usually get impatient with these things since it's really hasn't even been that long since that happened but you know how it is sometimes, you wonder if she wants to see more of me. From all the signs I read she do like my company at least, laughs a lot, the kisses seems great, and not wanting me to leave. I'm not expecting a full blown relationship but I'd like to be able to actually hang out and see where it goes kinda thing. It's a different situation since we got physical so what do women like this usually look for? Is it usually more of something for fun or is there a possibility of seeing each other again? Of course I'll ask her and talk to her again but I wanted to see other opinions before jumping the gun.
Koopa Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 sounds like a solid FWB situation, enjoy it. Just don't fall in love and understand it's just a physical relationship where friendship is included. There are chemicals in your brain that are activated when you have sex with someone which may make you feel like it is something more but it is not, understand that feeling fades once you build a tolerance to the dopamine rush you get from being with her.
ja123 Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 (edited) I've been in the position of the chick and, for me, if I like the guy's personality and feel like hanging out, then there is the potential for more; i.e., relationship. However, guard your emotions until you have more info, this could be just a FWB situation. Communicate with her. Edited May 31, 2014 by ja123
Author Stay Posted May 31, 2014 Author Posted May 31, 2014 (edited) sounds like a solid FWB situation, enjoy it. Just don't fall in love and understand it's just a physical relationship where friendship is included. There are chemicals in your brain that are activated when you have sex with someone which may make you feel like it is something more but it is not, understand that feeling fades once you build a tolerance to the dopamine rush you get from being with her. I've been in the position of the chick and, for me, if I like the guy's personality and feel like hanging out, then there is the potential for more; i.e., relationship. However, guard your emotions until you have more info, this could be just a FWB situation. Communicate with her. I don't mind to experience a FWB but I don't want to be a one time then drop kinda thing. That's what I dislike and always makes me wonder. It's obviously my first time with this but do FWB communicate often? Or is it like a couple times a week call when they're in the mood? I do enjoy her company and just really want someone to hang out and do that which is a FWB. Obviously I'm not going to be talking with her like crazy but what is usually a normal amount of communication? I don't want to be needy yet I don't wanna play games and guess when I should contact, if I should ask her to go have dinner/lunch/drinks, etc. Edited May 31, 2014 by Stay
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