nessa213191 Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 (edited) I have had the same boyfriend for five years I left him for three months because I needed a break to focus on school. He would hit me up everyday begging for me to take him back and he was sorry for treating me badly. After three months I gave in and took him back. Everything was going well until I found out he was talking to someone else which I didn't mind we weren't together and he said that he didn't tell her we were back together and he would end it now. I trusted him and he claimed he ended it. It never ended comes to show that he was in a relationship with her a month before we got back together he fought for her and denied me. He said hes been single the past five years, I am crazy, He doesn't want me, that i ruined his life and all these things to everyone. He actually denied me when I gave him everything I had I sacrificed so much for him career wise, school wise, family wise, and he broke my heart. He denies it all still but still reaches out to me and says hes sorry and claims he is alone. The girl told me stop trying to steal her man and posts pictures of them everyday I HATE HIM he blamed me for everything he claimed if i never left him this wouldn't have happened to begin with. What hurts the most is he was the one i planned to do everything with and the girl claims i was stilling her man they only been together two months and he takes her to family functions and i feel like i lost out he calls me still and as much as i want to tell the other girl look what ur man is doing cuz she boast to everyone he chose her and he is living with her after a month n he denies it all when there are piks everywhere and my name is destroyed now and my reputation i never deserved that I stopped answering him and deleted him everywhere but keeps claiming he needs me he is alone suffering but is in a relationship with her I just want to feel better. I cant believe he would deny me :'(he told her he was living with his mom when he has his own place and because of me she found out about his place and he started to take her there he just replaced me and the girl flaunts it every chance she gets i know he is not for me anymore after everything i don't know who he is idk i wish he knew how i felt my pain my suffering Edited May 31, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
d0nnivain Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 You did cause some of this. You broke up with him & let him chase you for three months. You have to own that. As for the rest of it, why would you want to get back together with somebody who says one thing to your face & something else to the rest of the world? He's a liar. As for the drama with the new GF, bow out & ignore it. If you block them both from your social media you will have no idea what's she's posting. If she wants your rejects let her have them. 1
Author nessa213191 Posted May 31, 2014 Author Posted May 31, 2014 yea i admit i could hae done something differently but he treated me so badly you have no idea and would blame me for all the wrong going on in his life he would try to commit suicide daily and i would contact his family and he would blaime me for not having a job and for everything in life being take away from him i couldnt take the pressure anymore i needed to focus on school and he wasnt realizing what he was doing to me
d0nnivain Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 If he treated you badly you made the right decision when you broke up with him the 1st time. Your mistake was taking him back & subjecting yourself to all of this. Let him go. You're better off.
learning_slowly Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 Some people can never take responsibility for their own actions. You wouldn't want to be blamed for all his future mistakes. Take some happiness that you are out of it and she will now have to be responsible for his dramas 1
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