chardayze Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 My boyfriend of 2 years has been treating me differently/rudely for the past two months. I finally told him that I can't do this anymore unless things change and he agreed. He has been going through a lot this year and has been really stressed out and has been pushing me away without him realising. He says he is still very much in love with me and wants to be with me, but feels like he shouldn't. We have agreed to have no contact for 2weeks so that I can give him some thinking time to work out what he actually wants and so that I can make sure I definitely want this relationship too. We have chosen a place and time to meet up after the 2weeks, but each of us will only show up if we still want to be in the relationship. It has been 6 days since we last had any contact and I feel sick every time I think about him and thinking about him not showing up. I love him so much and I can't imagine not being with him. I just don't know how to stop thinking about him and what I will do if he doesn't show up. So i would love any advice..
Lernaean_Hydra Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 Based on the limited information your provided and the fact that none of us are psychics, I can assure you, no one here will be to tell you whether the relationship is over or not. Frankly, I see no point in even pondering the question further; over thinking it can and will only lead to obsession and exhaustion. You'll find out in just eight short days whether he's worth your time anyway. Until then, focus on yourself and nothing else.
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