dring23 Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 Hi, I was seeing a women for 5 months (we are both 35), the last month things were getting pretty serious. Out of no where she became distant and things cooled off. We haven't seen each other for 6 weeks now, but occasionally text back and forth. Mostly talk about how things are going. Over the last 3 weeks she does not respond to my texts for days and when she does she gives mixed signals. I messaged her a few weeks ago and had no reply. I left for a holiday a few weeks ago and on the Friday of my trip I got a message from her apologizing for taking so long to get back to me and that she had a lot going on and that she missed me. I asked what was wrong and she told me to enjoy my trip not to worry she was ok and we would talk later. I texted her later that evening and she just said "I'm ok". Then an hour later said not to worry and enjoy my trip. Told her I would make time to listen and asked what was going on. 8 hours later she responded "I will see u when u get back ok! I promise and we can talk! I really miss ya xoxoxo!! Wish I could have gone with you." I told her I missed her too and that we would talk soon. I have been back from my holiday for a bit now and have tried to get ahold of her a few times but she will not return my messages. I have feelings for her, and she has said the same. As much as I would like things to work out can't keep having her do this then come back everytime I try and move on. Any help or thoughts would be greatly appreciated!
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 She's met / interested in someone else... You're on the back burner. 2
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 She's met / interested in someone else... You're on the back burner. I totally agree and those messages saying she wishes she could have gone with you are when she is feeling low probably due to an argument with the other... there is definitely someone else in the picture here Im sorry xx
Author dring23 Posted May 29, 2014 Author Posted May 29, 2014 That's what I figured, just don't want to believe it. I have tried going NC but she always contacts me in 5-10 days. She even contacted me from another number one time. She does have alot of things going on in her life right now that she is dealing with. I want to tell her to stop contacting me so i can move on. But even with all the stress and frustration she has caused me I don't want to abandon her completely .
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 I know this is hard. I get that!! But don't make excuses for her. She is treating you like a chump. Period. Go NC!! Block, delete and don't respond if she does sneak through your defenses!!! This feeling of not wanting to abandon her will go away soon enough, IF you go NC!! Have some dignity and self respect...
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