Natsume21 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Talking to a girl who I INSTANTLY clicked with and then she mentioned a "best guy friend" This comment came after a random comment of her saying how comfortable she is talking to me. My red flags started going up. So I asked her if this friend was interested in her(trying to guage how she reacted to him, here's what she said. Girl: "Hmm is he interested? That's a good question. Yes and no He admitted to loving me and being attracted to me. But he says I'm worth more to him than someone he can just have as a lover. Its like he as me on a pedestal. Someone he loves but doesn't want to touch. I never really understood it." And here is my immediate response. And I said it out loud: "He may be your best bud, but let me make it clear, I will not settle for best friend. I got a couple of best buds myself so I'm not talking to you for the company. I see what I want and she's in front of me. So how about we spend an evening together, my plans?" She laughed and blushed, and then texted "I love a man who knows what he wants. I would definitely not mind an evening out...or an evening in ;)" Me: The evening in part sounds good. I'll bring popcorn. Her: LMAO. So now we're getting to know each other. I didn't do anything special in this conversation. I just spoke my mind. I got a question, folks. WHAT DO I SAY TO GET HER INTERESTED? I need to know so I don't blow it. --Natsume21.
daisydook Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Dude! She does like you. Lol. Did you assume she was trying to friendzone you by telling you this? Or to find out whether you were a controlling douche knuckle? Lol. She wasn't talking to you about this guy so she could friend zone you. She was telling you about him to see if you were a controlling douche who doesn't like when women have male friends. She was honest and upfront. She was flirty with you. She likes you, Silly. So keep being playful and doing what you're doing. Be direct and leave nothing to her imagination. If you want it, ask. That's my opinion. You're doing just fine but you don't even know it! Hehe. 1
Author Natsume21 Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 It still surprises me when a girl shows interest.... I always worry if it's going to die one day.
David87 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 She likes you a lot, don't worry just be yourself and don't overthink everything you'll say. Be as natural as possible and you'll be fine.. 1
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