enchanted771 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I know this guy a few months. We see each other off and on. Anyways, we were texting last night and he is complimenting me, being sweet, and saying we should do this and that together (which he said before and we have yet to do these things). Then was talking about seeing me this week. So i try and make plans with him and he says " I will let you know" this is upsetting because he is putting me on hold expecting me to just keep my schedule free and clear all week until its convenient for him. Then any texts i wrote after that he ignored, said he is working. I know i need to just walk away...but i feel conflicted. I dont want to be disrespected i know i deserve better. I just have abandonment and co-dependecy issues. Please no flaming i already feel bad enough as it is. Probably the reason i havent met a decent guy is becuase i am wasting my time on men who wont commit.
d0nnivain Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 You can sort of have your cake & it too. You know he's a tease & can't make plans. You know you need to walk away but . . . Make other plans, go out have fun. . . if the happy coincidence arises where he does offer a concrete time & place AND your free, go. But like you already know, you can't wait around for him. 2
Author enchanted771 Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 You can sort of have your cake & it too. You know he's a tease & can't make plans. You know you need to walk away but . . . Make other plans, go out have fun. . . if the happy coincidence arises where he does offer a concrete time & place AND your free, go. But like you already know, you can't wait around for him. Yeah....i can see that with him I will never plan ahead. Its going to be one of those things where its spontaneous.
Assasda Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I dont understand where the dilemma is. If you are busy, tell him that you live a busy life, and you cant just hang out anytime. I dont understand why you need to stay away, unless thats just how you feel in your gut, because I didnt read anything wrong. Seems like the relationship is very fresh. I hope you dont want instant commitment with someone you barely even know
Author enchanted771 Posted May 29, 2014 Author Posted May 29, 2014 No the issue is he mentions seeing me during the week and hasn't followed through. I tried to confirm plans yesterday and so he says " I'll get back to you" and didn't. That's fine because now I made other plans and I haven't contacted him. If he wants to get together he will have to make a move. 2
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