SolG Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I know a few guys who would easily be in that ball park. I remember being on a work trip with one such guy. We got into the lift at our hotel to go up to our rooms, and this gorgeous woman (also well groomed and dressed) hopped in the lift with us. She gave him the once over, and when she alighted at her floor she turned to him, gave him her room key and told him she'd expect him at seven! I kid you not. And that kind of thing happened to him a lot. I think there's a certain type of guy who just attracts women; and all they have to do is scoop them up with a butterfly net. Reasonably attractive, charismatic, confident... and I think the most successful of them are also really good company. And I don't see a problem with having as many partners as you like. As long as it's all safe, kind and consensual.
Author BarackObama Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 I dont think it is really helpful to tell a person to look for sex from someone with low self esteem...theres a words for doing just that.......disrespectful towards women ....is it misogynistic advice...unsure.....or a joke post..... ...he needs to be honest he just wants sex and find women who want the same thing....not damage an already damaged woman.....low self esteem is often damage done...which then if you choose to exploit anothers painful reminders it turns ..........into maybe women who are stalking him for the next twenty three years and going fatal attraction....will impede sexual exploits for sure......if that low self esteem goes rabbit vigilante on his ass for taking advantage of her.....same with alcohol.......inebriated woman equals possible date rape scenario......i think he should look for women who are on an even keel who understand and accept and actually want and choose to have sex with him...not want to gnaw their arm off the next morning or he could have a lot of one armed rabbit cooking vigilantes chasing him down the road every time he goes to meet someone to add to his bedpost......i am not saying that women with low self esteem would all cook a guys pet rabbit....i am saying you just never know your luck in a big city who you might find......you migth fidn the mum who can load a slr 45 standing right behind the women with low self esteem who was basically stalked and rooted due to low sefl esteem..........or even worse the dad beside the mum......stranger things happen i would suggest out of personal safety and self respect, rooting a hundred women isnt attractive for many reasons and shouldn't be a well longed for path to take....if you can imagine the full condoms at the end of it all....its a bit of a turn off....i like the slr thought actually considering i have three daughters two with low self esteem who also drink...i am trying to deal with that and yes i can shoot an slr so avoid....alert alert.....i suggest....avoidance of girls or women with low self esteem and drunk women in night clubs..........and root women who choose to be with you on an even playing field......get your notches in fairness and honesty by choice not stalking the damaged........deb I want sex, no relationship. Problem is, i never had sex.
littleplanet Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I want sex, no relationship. Problem is, i never had sex. Whoa there, laddie! A journey of a 100 women starts with the first flirt. James Bond fantasies and all......... The perfect one for you might show up at the head of the line (and wouldn't that just be the dog's knickers, aye?) because at the end of the line of the other 99 you'd know what a bloody waste of time it all was! Funny things can happen on the way to the Forum. The Lions all have a luvly time up in the stands, guzzling pina coladas and texting their philisophical thoughts - while the chosen people all duke it out to the death down there in the pits. When but a wee lad myself, I once had the pleasure of an invitation to lunch at a rather large construction camp (out in the deep woods.) I sat down and napkin'd up to a table large enough for a dozen last suppers - with every manner of tasty dish known to man or beast spread before me. I resolved upon the spot to taste each and every one on offer. An hour later - I was out groaning beneath the willowed greenwood tree, pondering the error of my insatiability. Appetites.........are built to fit the size of the tum, chum. 1
littleplanet Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 "get your notches in fairness and honesty by choice not stalking the damaged........deb" Luvly quote, todreaminblue - THIS........................should be a topic for a whole new thread. The dark undercurrents that run deep beneath the lifestyle, the advertised, the mesmerized, the unsatisfied. Rows and rows of Paper Dolls......Contrary Marys all garden-grown, expert scissor-snips around the form and the fashion hung along the halls and walls of conquest cuts precisely in between the blood and nerve where nothing ever quite human shows the pain.
2.50 a gallon Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 (edited) You don't need to be rich or famous, nor all that good looking with a body builders body. First I never set out bed a certain number or woman. It just sort of happened and after awhile I did not have to try all that hard. When I look back there were lots of factors. I guess my first step was learning to dance, then learning to dance well, which then evolved into dancing is fun. Key word, Fun. Learning to dance, I got over my shyness and learned who to talk to women, and more importantly learned how to listen. As for bars, mostly I went there to dance. I did go to one, that was purely fun. They had a volley ball court. I would go there with friends, male and female, also made lots of friends there. Play volleyball, they also furnished decks of cards and backgammon. I met lots of ladies that way. I lived in large apartment complexes, with mostly singles, pool, grills, volley ball court. Back to having fun. Had a blender, and a fridge with the latest couple of flavors of Boones Farm. Would mix up a blender of pina coladas, daiquiris, etc and bring it pool side. Never bragged about my successes. Also, women talk, especially if they had a good time. I was big into oral, when not that many men were. More than once, was hit on by their friends. I got the reputation of a great party man, I threw great parties. Lots of good music, cheese dip, onion dip, and I spent most of the night working, mixing drinks, baking stuffed mushrooms, etc. Built a rep of throwing good parties, and lots of new ladies would show up with their friends. Never know, a month or two down the road would spot one of them at the mall, or while out dancing. Learned to talk to women. Met many of my partners as grocery check out ladies, sporting goods store, drug store, bank teller. Would talk with them find out about their pets, kids, etc. They love to talk about their lives, their kids, their pets. "So what did Banzai the car do this week?" Fun dates, would take them to the stock car races and down into the pits. Many women had never caught a fish, I knew where and when to go. After catching fish home for a fish fry, and a bottle of two of wine. Began baking cutout cookies, at Christmas, over the years that must have got me laid dozens of times. With that kind of success added, Halloween, thanksgiving, and valentines cookie baking. Also on the naughty side, one of my helpers gave me a couple of naughty cookies cutters. Make sex fun, show them a good time and they will come back for seconds. Edited May 28, 2014 by 2.50 a gallon 2
ascendotum Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Began baking cutout cookies, at Christmas, over the years that must have got me laid dozens of times. Hey...how does this work? You cook cookies shaped like say xmas trees and give them to all your single female neighbors, and that gets them all fired up for a guy who bakes?? You probably weren't all that bad looking and your fun spirit & flirty nature counted for more than giving women cookies I would have thought. Can't see it being a panty wetter or game changer for lots of guys, that's why I am curious
somedude81 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 You don't need to be rich or famous, nor all that good looking with a body builders body. First I never set out bed a certain number or woman. It just sort of happened and after awhile I did not have to try all that hard. When I look back there were lots of factors. I guess my first step was learning to dance, then learning to dance well, which then evolved into dancing is fun. Key word, Fun. Learning to dance, I got over my shyness and learned who to talk to women, and more importantly learned how to listen. As for bars, mostly I went there to dance. I did go to one, that was purely fun. They had a volley ball court. I would go there with friends, male and female, also made lots of friends there. Play volleyball, they also furnished decks of cards and backgammon. I met lots of ladies that way. I lived in large apartment complexes, with mostly singles, pool, grills, volley ball court. Back to having fun. Had a blender, and a fridge with the latest couple of flavors of Boones Farm. Would mix up a blender of pina coladas, daiquiris, etc and bring it pool side. Never bragged about my successes. Also, women talk, especially if they had a good time. I was big into oral, when not that many men were. More than once, was hit on by their friends. I got the reputation of a great party man, I threw great parties. Lots of good music, cheese dip, onion dip, and I spent most of the night working, mixing drinks, baking stuffed mushrooms, etc. Built a rep of throwing good parties, and lots of new ladies would show up with their friends. Never know, a month or two down the road would spot one of them at the mall, or while out dancing. Learned to talk to women. Met many of my partners as grocery check out ladies, sporting goods store, drug store, bank teller. Would talk with them find out about their pets, kids, etc. They love to talk about their lives, their kids, their pets. "So what did Banzai the car do this week?" Fun dates, would take them to the stock car races and down into the pits. Many women had never caught a fish, I knew where and when to go. After catching fish home for a fish fry, and a bottle of two of wine. Began baking cutout cookies, at Christmas, over the years that must have got me laid dozens of times. With that kind of success added, Halloween, thanksgiving, and valentines cookie baking. Also on the naughty side, one of my helpers gave me a couple of naughty cookies cutters. Make sex fun, show them a good time and they will come back for seconds. Damn dude, that sounds really cool. Though as I read it, it just seems so complicated. What would you say is the starting steps?
dichotomy Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 (edited) I have "slept" over 400+ times.......... ..... with the same woman.... does that count? Edited May 28, 2014 by dichotomy 3
Imported Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 What would a girl think of a guy tht has slept with iver 100 girls? I mean, I have have done some thigns with women in my life that I think requires a lot of good faith and understanding from "Ms. Right", but I haven't done 100 women and am not looking to. Somewhere out there is hte right person for you and you need to be the right person for her,
2.50 a gallon Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 The cookie thing was an accident. I had married the previous Christmas holiday, broke up 6 months later. I had just moved into a new apartment complex, and was just getting to know my neighbors. Thanksgiving, triggered me into some down times, and looking for something to keep me busy over the 3 day holiday, remembered my mom had given my Ex & I some old cutter I had used as a kid, I baked a batch and decorated them to help perk me up. Then when I shared them with my new neighbors, I got offers of next time you bake let me know. They brought their cutters, and a bottle of wine. Baking cookies, brought up memories of their childhood, and let them slip back into being a kid for a couple of hours. Which brings up another point. I learned that women, like to see a man let the little boy in him come out and play. When in a toy store, check out the toys, from the little boy inside of you's point of view. Don't be a afraid to add a "Vroom" when playing with the trucks. Do you remember the smell of a new baseball glove, when out shopping with a gal, and you come across the glove department, pick one up take a deep whiff and let the smell take you back to when you were a kid
ASG Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 What would a girl think of a guy tht has slept with iver 100 girls? I mean, I have have done some thigns with women in my life that I think requires a lot of good faith and understanding from "Ms. Right", but I haven't done 100 women and am not looking to. Somewhere out there is hte right person for you and you need to be the right person for her, Well, I would suspect if it was a person who wasn't into casual sex, they'd be a bit miffed... But if they were... 100 ONS is the same as 30 ONS, really... I've had guys tell me they'd slept with almost or over 100 women. Does not phase me at all! Who am I to judge, really?!?! I am not *there* yet (still a ways away and I have no particular interest in reaching that number), but I've slept with a fair few people myself.
2.50 a gallon Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 I especially like the "Finding the Right one" line. I caught her cheating six months into our marriage. It was then when I discovered how close I came to financial disaster. Had the marriage lasted longer and we had kids, I would have been paying thru the nose for decades. From that point on women had only one purpose in life. Divorce is the best thing that ever happened to me!
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