BarackObama Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 How do you do it? Are you attractive or you have great personality? Is it effortless for you or you still have to make the first move?
SpiritualAlchemy Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I think it would be less to do with being "attractive" or having a "great" personality and more to do with filling some void within themselves. Most women would be worried about catching an STD from a potential partner who admitted doing this, besides the concern of the fickleness of such a man.
Natsume21 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 How do you do it? Are you attractive or you have great personality? Is it effortless for you or you still have to make the first move? One, I don't think many men have done this. Two, if they have, they need three things. 1. LOTS OF MONEY. 2. FAME. 3. FAME. You're too concerned with quantity instead of quality. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 How do you do it? Are you attractive or you have great personality? Is it effortless for you or you still have to make the first move? Why does your question feel more like you're fishing for advice on how to whittle away the wood on your bedpost? 4
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Seriously, finding someone to have sex with isn't hard at all. If all you're looking for is a place to stick your c*ck and don't care about much else, there are plenty of places, apps and websites where you can easily find NSA ONS. They are EVERYWHERE! Do that a few times a week and reaching your goal of 100 women isn't such a pipe dream after all. And either is catching a STD. Good luck 1
Author BarackObama Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 Seriously, finding someone to have sex with isn't hard at all. Good luck But But its easy for most women. 1
ASG Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 One, I don't think many men have done this. Two, if they have, they need three things. 1. LOTS OF MONEY. 2. FAME. 3. FAME. You're too concerned with quantity instead of quality. Wrong. The only thing you need is to want to have sex with that many people. I know a fair amount of guys who have slept with 100+ women. They're not rich. Some aren't even that good looking. But yeah, they are definitely an exception and not the rule!
Charlie Harper Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I have maybe, if not I am in the high 2 figures, have paid for tons of condoms that is for sure! My goal was not sex, I never saw a woman and went to bed just because it was the objective. I think it has to do with 3 things: You are not creepy, they find you approachable and non threatening They can communicate with you and feel comfortable and understood You are natural, make mistakes, and talk --- she is an EQUAL. A lot of guys try too hard, do things to impress women and they end up being creepy. A lot of times I have been with a woman and then one thing leads to another and we end up having sex, most of the times I have never even hinted I wanted it, so I guess it goes to prove that women like sex a lot and they go for it if they feel secure, not judged and they find you attractive-approachable. Of course if you look like George Clooney its going to be easier, but women on general (no drama queens and princesses), like to feel wanted, safe and someone to talk-communicate with… If your goal is to sleep with 100+ women you are being shallow, if your goal is to meet a lot of women to find the right one, then thats is different ... 4
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 But But its easy for most women. Oh give me a break
No Limit Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Go into a bar and get a girl, that's all you need for sex. And even if you're not attractive, look for the drunk type with lacking self-esteem and you're in. Not sure why a large number of sexual partners would be something worth pursuing though, but I guess I just lack the male perspective in this.
somedude81 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I have maybe, if not I am in the high 2 figures, have paid for tons of condoms that is for sure! My goal was not sex, I never saw a woman and went to bed just because it was the objective. I think it has to do with 3 things: You are not creepy, they find you approachable and non threatening They can communicate with you and feel comfortable and understood You are natural, make mistakes, and talk --- she is an EQUAL. A lot of guys try too hard, do things to impress women and they end up being creepy. A lot of times I have been with a woman and then one thing leads to another and we end up having sex, most of the times I have never even hinted I wanted it, so I guess it goes to prove that women like sex a lot and they go for it if they feel secure, not judged and they find you attractive-approachable. Of course if you look like George Clooney its going to be easier, but women on general (no drama queens and princesses), like to feel wanted, safe and someone to talk-communicate with… If your goal is to sleep with 100+ women you are being shallow, if your goal is to meet a lot of women to find the right one, then thats is different ... You forgot to mention that having a house on the beach gives you huge amounts of status. Though still, since you don't let your brother and his son co*k block you, then you must have some game.
somedude81 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Wrong. The only thing you need is to want to have sex with that many people. I know a fair amount of guys who have slept with 100+ women. They're not rich. Some aren't even that good looking. But yeah, they are definitely an exception and not the rule! LOL! There was a time in my life where I wanted to have sex with tons of women just for the hell of it. Though it didn't happen Desire is not enough. When you were looking for a guy to have a casual thing with, what were the most important qualities for that guy?
Keenly Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Waaaaaaay too much work to put in for that to be worth it.
Frank2thepoint Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 How do you do it? Are you attractive or you have great personality? Is it effortless for you or you still have to make the first move? But Mr. President, you are married with children. I don't think Michelle will approve. 2
ASG Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 LOL! There was a time in my life where I wanted to have sex with tons of women just for the hell of it. Though it didn't happen Desire is not enough. When you were looking for a guy to have a casual thing with, what were the most important qualities for that guy? No, desire is not enough. Even I struggle at times! Well, obviously, attraction is key. I need to be attracted to the guy. But that doesn't mean he has to be an adonis. I've slept with tall guys, with short guys, with fat guys and skinny guys. Some were hairy, some not so much, bald, long hair, glasses, no glasses, blond hair, dark hair, grey hair (and I have to say... I do have a thing for grey hair!), some are famous, most are not, some had money coming out of their asses, most were as poor as I am, etc etc etc. When they are not an adonis, something else made me attracted to them. Usually the conversation we were having. Maybe they were funny or witty, or just really thoughtful. The guy I'm seeing, he's cute, but I wasn't attracted to him right out of the gate. But he's FUNNY. I remember one night we were all in the pub and he was telling "war stories" of his adventures with women on tour and we were all crying from laughter. That was when I first started paying attention to him in that way. We then developed a rapport, we were always joking and play fighting. And then things happened. But at the time I didn't think I would come to like him as much as I do now. But that only happened when we moved on from booty call to actual dates and I actually got to know HIM and not just the character. 2
TalesoftheWireMonkey Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I think it has to do with 3 things: You are not creepy, they find you approachable and non threatening They can communicate with you and feel comfortable and understood You are natural, make mistakes, and talk --- she is an EQUAL.I've been doing those three for 30 years and never got a kiss. I think you have to add two more: A physical appearance that is not repulsive. (Extremely short, endomorph or weak chin are all going to have to work harder. If you have any combination of those traits or all three you'll be alone a lot.) You have to display a massive amount of confidence.( More than feels normal unless you have it naturally. Never display doubt or weakness that ties into women feeling comfortable mentioned above. Unfortunately easily bedding women builds confidence.) If it makes you feel any better OP. I've been friendzoned by 100+ women!!!
somedude81 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 No, desire is not enough. Even I struggle at times! Well, obviously, attraction is key. I need to be attracted to the guy. But that doesn't mean he has to be an adonis. I've slept with tall guys, with short guys, with fat guys and skinny guys. Some were hairy, some not so much, bald, long hair, glasses, no glasses, blond hair, dark hair, grey hair (and I have to say... I do have a thing for grey hair!), some are famous, most are not, some had money coming out of their asses, most were as poor as I am, etc etc etc. When they are not an adonis, something else made me attracted to them. Usually the conversation we were having. Maybe they were funny or witty, or just really thoughtful. The guy I'm seeing, he's cute, but I wasn't attracted to him right out of the gate. But he's FUNNY. I remember one night we were all in the pub and he was telling "war stories" of his adventures with women on tour and we were all crying from laughter. That was when I first started paying attention to him in that way. We then developed a rapport, we were always joking and play fighting. And then things happened. But at the time I didn't think I would come to like him as much as I do now. But that only happened when we moved on from booty call to actual dates and I actually got to know HIM and not just the character. I have *some* gray hairs, does that count? I think they're still there if I haven't tweezed them out like the foul demons they are! So for you, it's a real plus if the guy is funny? Joking and play fighting. I haven't tried play fighting with a girl I wasn't actually dating.
todreaminblue Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 (edited) Go into a bar and get a girl, that's all you need for sex. And even if you're not attractive, look for the drunk type with lacking self-esteem and you're in. Not sure why a large number of sexual partners would be something worth pursuing though, but I guess I just lack the male perspective in this. I dont think it is really helpful to tell a person to look for sex from someone with low self esteem...theres a words for doing just that.......disrespectful towards women ....is it misogynistic advice...unsure.....or a joke post..... ...he needs to be honest he just wants sex and find women who want the same thing....not damage an already damaged woman.....low self esteem is often damage done...which then if you choose to exploit anothers painful reminders it turns ..........into maybe women who are stalking him for the next twenty three years and going fatal attraction....will impede sexual exploits for sure......if that low self esteem goes rabbit vigilante on his ass for taking advantage of her.....same with alcohol.......inebriated woman equals possible date rape scenario......i think he should look for women who are on an even keel who understand and accept and actually want and choose to have sex with him...not want to gnaw their arm off the next morning or he could have a lot of one armed rabbit cooking vigilantes chasing him down the road every time he goes to meet someone to add to his bedpost......i am not saying that women with low self esteem would all cook a guys pet rabbit....i am saying you just never know your luck in a big city who you might find......you migth fidn the mum who can load a slr 45 standing right behind the women with low self esteem who was basically stalked and rooted due to low sefl esteem..........or even worse the dad beside the mum......stranger things happen i would suggest out of personal safety and self respect, rooting a hundred women isnt attractive for many reasons and shouldn't be a well longed for path to take....if you can imagine the full condoms at the end of it all....its a bit of a turn off....i like the slr thought actually considering i have three daughters two with low self esteem who also drink...i am trying to deal with that and yes i can shoot an slr so avoid....alert alert.....i suggest....avoidance of girls or women with low self esteem and drunk women in night clubs..........and root women who choose to be with you on an even playing field......get your notches in fairness and honesty by choice not stalking the damaged........deb Edited May 28, 2014 by todreaminblue 3
ASG Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I have *some* gray hairs, does that count? I think they're still there if I haven't tweezed them out like the foul demons they are! So for you, it's a real plus if the guy is funny? Joking and play fighting. I haven't tried play fighting with a girl I wasn't actually dating. LOL I do the same to my grey hairs. Evil things! But I find that salt and pepper in a man is really attractive! It has to be more than just the odd grey hair though, to qualify! But again, it's not a must. the FWB doesn't have grey hair (apart from a few strays) Yes, funny is a definite plus. But you also need to keep in mind that what is funny for some might not be for another. This guy was just the right kind of funny for me! Play fighting is tricky! You need to be comfortable with the other person. I don't usually like people to touch me, so I guess I was getting attracted to him. I don't remember how it started, but we weren't sleeping together yet and wouldn't for a couple of weeks... but the sexual tension sure built during that time! And it was full on! I got knocked into a wall more times than I can count. And one time he grabbed the waist of my trousers and started swinging me... And then our company manager joined him, each grabbed a leg and an arm and were swinging me off the STAGE for what felt like an eternity. Time drags when you think you're going to die (I didn't think they would let go, but was terrified of their hands slipping, thus sending me on a flight to my death down the orchestra pit) 1
Art_Critic Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 humpffff.. I expected there to be no posts in this thread My numbers are not near 100 but can say that my success with women in my single days had always been my humor and personality, I'm normal in looks but have no trouble engaging a woman in an entertaining conversation that totally has her attention and she always wants more...
somedude81 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 LOL I do the same to my grey hairs. Evil things! But I find that salt and pepper in a man is really attractive! It has to be more than just the odd grey hair though, to qualify! But again, it's not a must. the FWB doesn't have grey hair (apart from a few strays) Yes, funny is a definite plus. But you also need to keep in mind that what is funny for some might not be for another. This guy was just the right kind of funny for me! Play fighting is tricky! You need to be comfortable with the other person. I don't usually like people to touch me, so I guess I was getting attracted to him. I don't remember how it started, but we weren't sleeping together yet and wouldn't for a couple of weeks... but the sexual tension sure built during that time! And it was full on! I got knocked into a wall more times than I can count. And one time he grabbed the waist of my trousers and started swinging me... And then our company manager joined him, each grabbed a leg and an arm and were swinging me off the STAGE for what felt like an eternity. Time drags when you think you're going to die (I didn't think they would let go, but was terrified of their hands slipping, thus sending me on a flight to my death down the orchestra pit) Did you die?! I don't have the odd gray hair, they appear in little clump at the front of my hair line. Argh, sexual tension is a very difficult concept for me. I've never experienced tension with a woman I haven't kissed yet. That looks like another thread I'll have to start.
ASG Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Did you die?! I don't have the odd gray hair, they appear in little clump at the front of my hair line. Argh, sexual tension is a very difficult concept for me. I've never experienced tension with a woman I haven't kissed yet. That looks like another thread I'll have to start. Almost... OF A HEART ATTACK!!! I was actually terrified, even if I did laugh it off afterwards. Later that day he tried a sneak attack from behind, in the dark. Luckily I'd clocked him and somehow saw him coming towards me out of the corner of my eye and turned right on time! We were actually the entertainment for the whole company.. Well, the whole point of sexual tension is that there is no release, so it builds. Kissing is a form of release. By the time we were sleeping together our fights just became more violent, as we had more physical trust in each other. But like Art Critic said, being funny and having a fun personality will get you chicks.
carhill Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 humpffff.. I expected there to be no posts in this thread My numbers are not near 100 but can say that my success with women in my single days had always been my humor and personality, I'm normal in looks but have no trouble engaging a woman in an entertaining conversation that totally has her attention and she always wants more... Also, being blatant about wanting sex will catch more fish than being circumspect about it. Further, the most successful men I've seen in this realm don't differentiate. They seduce all women, married, LTR and single, without regard to race, color, religion or social status. They 'love' women and they show it. More experience fine tunes their interaction style and inspires confidence, something women who may be open to casual sex like, again regardless of relationship status. It might seem to an outsider like they're 'using' people but they're not really, no more than married women, and other women, 'used' me. They're engaging in mutually enjoyable and beneficial sexual relations, just at a volume number someone like myself can't fathom. In hindsight, will someone who misinterpreted that engagement as 'something more' feel hurt? Yes, it happens, but that doesn't take away from their feelings in the moment. Once expectations are cast aside, much serial pleasure can be sought and experienced. Looking back at my younger years and knowing what I know now, it would have been fairly easy to have 100+ sexual discrete interactions in my time and generation. Had I cast aside pesky ideals like love, relationships, marriage and children and focused on the moment without expectations and used my ability to create rapport to focus on sex, it would have flowed. Every man has his own style and some men are outstanding at being serial lovers. Me, not so much. That's life!
littleplanet Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Of course attraction has something to do with it. That is the usual pattern. One can gave high standards...... or no standards at all (which becomes its own standard.) Maybe there is an 'art' to it......I dunno...... But that's an awful lot of paint flung at an awful lot of canvas.... (and just where and in what gallery do those masterpieces hang?) I suppose all this balances out between like-minded people, ultimately. I would strongly suspect that to achieve those kinds of numbers, one must retire a certain amount of their emotional vulnerability to the closet. And keep it there. Which actually brings me to the most fascinating part of all this: Since I was a teenager, I've always been astonished and amazed at how vulnerable sexuality makes people. Otherwise strong.....it can be the biggest Achilles heel. (which caused me to treat the stuff with respect: it has some power!) 1
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