Isthereanybodythere Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Hello there all! How many of you have dreams of your ex? I've been dreaming about her everyday since the break up 3 weeks ago, (She cheated) Most of them where us being together and being happy again but the one that stuck in my mind the most was the one when I beat her up. Now I was with her for 2 years, I never hit her once, never threatened her. She was treated as a queen. I just wanted to ask, does it mean anything in particular? It left me a little shaken and confused.
STM206 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 It's normal. I had dreams every night for a month straight. They subside once the initial shock wears off. I still have them on occasion but they aren't as frequent or intense.
PhillyConnection23 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Very rarely. However, I ended up having one last night/this morning. Basically that for whatever reason she completely blocked me from Facebook (I already unfriended her) but also her family completely blocked me as well. I'm not really sure why I cared about it in my dream but I ended up waking up just to check. Definitely not a high point of the last two months but it also wasn't that big of a deal.
me85 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 (edited) Yes. I still have dreams of my X. For the past few nights too. How frequent seems to depend on how much they are on my mind. Obviously. LOL They used to wake me up all upset in the middle of the night or the next morning but I haven't gotten upset over one in a long time. I swear it gets better. Hang in there. Edited May 27, 2014 by me85
Author Isthereanybodythere Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 Today I haven't dreamt of her, I just woke up and didn't even think of her. But as the day went on my mind began to question her and why'd she do it. But when I do think of her I just think of all the sh** she did actually put me through while with her. Am I in the anger stage? Feels like it is.
me85 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 You probably are. & maybe that will be enough to carry you through. Don't count on it though, Sorry, but you will face a wave of various emotions until it is completely out of your system. This I'm sure you already know.
greenbee81 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I had one. But it was short and not detailed. But dreams are just that, dreams, do t try to figure them out.
Always Pondering Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 The dreams are completely natural, don't worry you may end up having them for a while. I don't remember how long this was for but every night I had a dream with my ex in it. This was right after BU of course. I haven't had a dream with her in it in several weeks, and before that, a month or two. The amount that it happens will drastically shorten I promise you that.
jt27 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 It's normal I think. I would have dreams about her off and on for the first month or so. Then at about 6 weeks or so I was having them every night. Intense too. The have since faded a little in the past two weeks. I have a feeling they will come and go.
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