writergal Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 I hope you don't have to go on Divorce Court tv in front of Judge Judy.
Author Alexjones1 Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 I just want to get the ring back. I can't believe people can be so cruel but oh well. We have a joint phone account and etc. so I can't do one thing without her approval and she knows this. So she keeps avoiding me. So i guess i just have to wait and see. About the final talk. Doesn't bother me either way. I am happy and back to being myself. I lost myself in the relationship and tried to be someone I wasn't and because of that we fell out of love. Or she did. I know she creeps my fb and can see I am happy like I was during most our relationship. But I agree it's very disrespectful to ignore me. Then again she said it was disrespectful if i didn't give her space. Lmao Thanks for the replies.
BC1980 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Common courtesy would dictate that she return the ring, but we all know you can't count on that. I would ask for it back. I know you don't want to because it will force her hand. Likely, she will end it for good. I was involved in something similar with my ex, and the time and space excuse is just a way to ease out of the relationship. The distance usually reinforces what was their gut decision to leave. I've seen this story too many times to give you any false hope.
Author Alexjones1 Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 Sure I understand people need space. I mean I found out she had been hiding the engagement. She couldn't break it off for whatever reason and her family didn't like me. So for months she played both sides. I understand the stress she put on herself and a month again I found out and called her out on it. Now she is running. It's immature. But I feel bad for her. Truly I do. I don't mind breaking up I just want the ring back. And to cut our ties for good and she is not allowing us to do that. She is being extremely selfish which she admits and is sorry for it but it's what she says she needs. I am a strong as person and want to marry this person. I can deal with her finding her happiness with someone else or something different as long as she's happy.
Author Alexjones1 Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 What is more important than space? Hey man what are you trying to say?
Rar0 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Hey man what are you trying to say? Not a man a space should be on the top of the
Author Alexjones1 Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 Can you elaborate into a sentence. Thanks
Author Alexjones1 Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 Common courtesy would dictate that she return the ring, but we all know you can't count on that. I would ask for it back. I know you don't want to because it will force her hand. Likely, she will end it for good. I was involved in something similar with my ex, and the time and space excuse is just a way to ease out of the relationship. The distance usually reinforces what was their gut decision to leave. I've seen this story too many times to give you any false hope. I have tried to force her hand and been unsuccessful in it. Well she hasn't called back since I left a message 3 days ago.
Author Alexjones1 Posted June 9, 2014 Author Posted June 9, 2014 Ok so I made a second call to tie up loose ends and get the ring back. I'm being ignored obviously. Also I prefer not to change my phone number as I we have a joint contract and she is primary. She has to authorize the transfer. Wtf. She broke up with me and now won't let me move on. Lmao
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