Chances?

[confused4231]

So my gf and I have been dating about close to 8 months, we moved in fairly quickly after about 3 and a half. Anyhow this past week she said she needed time and felt like I was pushing her away, etc. She moved move but has been texting me, called a couple times, saying She misses me, She's used pet names she did before she moved out. And two days ago asked what I was doing this weekend so that we could possibly hang out. When I text her today asking if she still wanted to she didn't answer the question she answered some others as far was what her plan was for the day and that she was able to make it to the gym. I apologized for brining it up and she said its not you I just have a lot on my mind....My question is what gives? I should I do? I love this girl I hope that we can work out through whatever is going on. But it just feels like she's playing some sort of game? Why did she move out, why is she saying she misses me and acting like normal one minute and then going back to closing me out? Any advice?

[d0nnivain]

You may have moved in together too fast.

 

The fact that she's been calling but then backed off when you suggested getting together is a bad sign.

 

You will need to get her to verbalize "what's on her mind." I'd start by reminding her that if your relationship is one of the things she's thinking about it would be more productive if you talked about it. Maybe you could help if you knew what she was thinking. She won't be able to fix it by herself.

[Mr.Pine]

Why did she move out, why is she saying she misses me and acting like normal one minute and then going back to closing me out? Any advice?

 

Because she's seeing someone else and that person she is seeing is giving her mixed signals. When things are good with her new bf, she wants nothing to do with you. When things go awry, she tells you she misses you to keep you on a short leash.

 

Basically...she's banging someone else. It's time to move on.