thelonewolflegend Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Do you just ask or what do you do when I ask doesn't seem to work out.
TXGuy Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Chloroform and zip ties. Just kidding. First, you should probably concentrate on meaningful relationships first. But to answer your question, you basically have to be a guy with high enough value (physical, status, or sexual prowess) that a woman would be willing to have NSA sex with you without you doing all the romantic stuff and payi g for things.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted May 23, 2014 Author Posted May 23, 2014 yeah guess I cant have that really 1
Taramere Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 You will likely find that a sizeable number of women out there don't regard sex without any emotional ties as a benefit...so either you keep sifting them out in the search for those who enjoy sex without any emotional connection (and who want to have sex with you), or you reach a business arrangement with a friendly professional.
seekingpeaceinlove Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 You don't MAKE a woman a FWB. You find one that's looking for the same thing. 3
Mrin Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Pretty much just tell her that's what you are looking for. She's either down or not. 1
slizl Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Most of my ex gfs/hookups have become fwb. When I was in my 20s, it was much easier to just start as fwb and keep it as that. Now that I am 35, my primary source of fwb is ex gfs.
Hopeful30 Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Ask straight up. "I'm interested in a sexual relationship and nothing more. If that works for you, please let me know. If it doesn't, I understand completely." 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Ask straight up. "I'm interested in a sexual relationship and nothing more. If that works for you, please let me know. If it doesn't, I understand completely." Agreed. Just lay it out point blank. Done.
Trimmer Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 You don't MAKE a woman a FWB. You find one that's looking for the same thing. Yeah, the way the question was stated left me feeling a little weird about it. OP: You do know how adult relationships work, yes?
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 yeah but where to find them? Where to find NSA sex? Don't make me list all the websites out there that help do exactly that! 1
stateofgrace Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 You can very easily go on POF or any other "dating site" and set the "looking for" section to NSA/Casual encounters. There are girls who are also looking for that. You just have to find them. You can't just go up to a random girl and say, "hey I want to have NSA sex with you, are you down?" Life doesn't work that way. But if you go to a place where there are others looking for the same thing, your chances will increase. 2
Trimmer Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 To summarize: you don't find a woman, and then "make her" want to be FWB. You need to find women who are already inclined to do that, by seeking them out in the right venue (as recommended above.) 1
Author thelonewolflegend Posted May 23, 2014 Author Posted May 23, 2014 please make a list I would appreciate it
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