Kuno94 Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 I've been dating my gf for about 6 month, she travels every now and then and not sure if this is odd. Thing is sometimes she doesn't answer in her cell phone. Then a couple times she visited me and stayed in my house (and vice-versa), her cell was set in private and turned off. I asked her a couple times and she says that her cell is messed up with the reception and that she has to turn it off because of a couple friends from work annoying her with nonsense and unimportant stuff.
iiiii Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 My goodness, I often turn my cell phone to off or to silent, and miss calls and messages from people (including my partner). If my partner was suspicious of me because I sometimes turned my phone off, I'd say we had deeper issues in the relationship. Has this girl given you a reason not to trust her?
DArtagnan2 Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 My goodness, I often turn my cell phone to off or to silent, and miss calls and messages from people (including my partner). If my partner was suspicious of me because I sometimes turned my phone off, I'd say we had deeper issues in the relationship. Has this girl given you a reason not to trust her? I do the same thing accidentally. I turn off my ringer when working and sometimes I can not have my cell on when in certain areas because of my career. I have been with girls that would be upset because I would miss the call or take a minute to respond, although they said they understood about that each time I explained. dont look for something that isn't there, yet. you'll only be causing unnecessary worry which will turn in to lack of trust and then problems with the relationship. All created from your own perceptions.
Potz4prez Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Damn, she turns off her cell so that she's not bothered while she's spending time with you? Sound suspicious -.- 2
d0nnivain Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 You are probably thinking that she turns her cell off when with you so that her other BF doesn't call & when she's with him she turns it off so you don't call. Unless you have other evidence to support this cheating theory, I'd go with the idea that she is polite & unlike many people isn't glued to her cell. 1
Dudette Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 If she doesn't have children then it's possible she got into this habit but I would too find it highly unusual. If she has children then she is most certainly lying to you. I don't know any parent turning their phone off for any length of time for any reason. When I have visitors or visit someone I will turn the sound off but will check my phone from time to time.
saltyfishhead666 Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Not sure what this has to do with children considering the op hasn't stated she has any children. However I as a mother of two turn my phone off or on silent when I'm out with company. My children are with my parents while I'm out and anything that needs handling can be done by them perfectly well. The girl sounds like she's just trying to spend time with you without being disturbed. I do this, many people do this. It would erk me no end if I was out with someone and their phone kept going off. Relax - not everyone has an agenda
Author Kuno94 Posted May 23, 2014 Author Posted May 23, 2014 I haven't caught any other suspicious behaviors from her. I will assume that she just doesn't want to be bother by everyone. If there were other signs, I would have snoop but I haven't. I will say that I've been cheated on before by 2 past gfs and one would tell saying she was on business trips and the other would frequently have her cell turned off or the line was busy. With them, it was very similar too in the way that it didn't appear they were cheating and I didn't think but they did.
Author Kuno94 Posted May 23, 2014 Author Posted May 23, 2014 You are probably thinking that she turns her cell off when with you so that her other BF doesn't call & when she's with him she turns it off so you don't call. Unless you have other evidence to support this cheating theory, I'd go with the idea that she is polite & unlike many people isn't glued to her cell.No evidence but I had this happened to me by one of my ex gfs.
Potz4prez Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 No evidence but I had this happened to me by one of my ex gfs. Well, I think we found the problem. Trust issues. This new girl is not your ex. Leave that **** behind you. 1
Dudette Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Well, I think we found the problem. Trust issues. This new girl is not your ex. Leave that **** behind you. I agree to leave the past in the past BUT we also need to learn with our past experiences otherwise we would be repeating over and over the same mistakes. If in the past a certain behavior has been indicative of something I don't think you should completely dismiss it when you recognize that partner in a new partner. I think you should take note of it and observe if anything else is the matter. 2
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