Author LilySun Posted May 25, 2014 Author Posted May 25, 2014 People only do what you allow them to. If you start just chilling at this guys house and no proper dates you've set the stage for the future relationship. He's trying to date on the cheap and not putting any effort into dating and courting. Aren't you worth more than this? Besides that, it's plain ol scary and stupid to go to a mans house that you don't know very well. NEXT! This is why I declined. Yes chilling at a guy's house with him is something I do with boyfriend and he is nowhere near that status. To me, it's something you do often once dating phase dies down, perhaps. Bottom line, the 1st date was cool and everything he's done since then is shady. I'm losing interest quickly. What I told him was I want to know a person better before going to their house. I didn't say it takes a few dates 1st. So I don't know if he gets that part. But he should.... duh.
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