tito1501 Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 Hello everyone, I love this forum because you guys are all helping each other and certainly have much more life/relationship experience than me, and even if you don't, sharing ideas is always good ! I am sure that is an easy one: -We have 20 years old. We had a great relationship for 2 and half years. -She broke up with me because I was no longer giving her attention (I deserved that). -After two years apart, she came back to me saying she missed me and she loves me more than anything, and she never want to be without me again. THE PROBLEM IS: I was told that, while we were apart, she went to a colleague of hers to get weed with a guy she was having sexual relations with. She confirmed it was true and she told me she used to smoke a little when she was having a bad time in her life and she was having relations with other guys because she knew I was kissing and meeting other girls very frequently. I think it is not a good problem because by doing that, she "discovered the world" and could figure out that it is not worth compared to what we had, because while we were dating, she was like the most innocent girl on Earth. Now she says that she does not care about other guys and she does not smoke anymore, that it reminded her how 'perfect' I am for her. After meeting her some times, I can quite believe it, she is like the girl I always loved. I would like your opinion, should I get over it or stay away from a relationship with her ?
PegNosePete Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 Personally, I would never go back to someone who has dumped me. Look to the future, not the past.
Author tito1501 Posted May 21, 2014 Author Posted May 21, 2014 Personally, I would never go back to someone who has dumped me. Look to the future, not the past. I understand your opinion, it makes total sense ! Does it change the scenario if I reinforce that I deserved that ? I was treating her very badly and I was making her sad every day during that time.
jeanne_girl Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 I'm sorry, but I don't understand what is your question here. Are you asking if you should get back with her after you broke up? If so, what has changed for you ever since? Is it a problem that she's done weed and dated someone else after you two broke up? Does it bother you?
soccerrprp Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 She dumped you for someone else. AND weed (drugs). Slept with him for that weed. She comes back b/c it didn't work out. Claims you were perfect when you even you admit that you were neglecting her, so no perfect at all... Move on. Poor judge of character and judgment in general.
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