sash11 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Hi everyone Back story : I'm 17 and I've been going to the same school with the same people for around 8-9 years. For as long as I can remember I've always had a crush on this girl. Shes been my first cruah ever since. The past two years, I had been attracted to her like I've never felt in my life. What makes it word is that her and I have a very " weird" relationship. In class, while I look at her she looks back. My friend has even admitted to me that she looks at me when I'm not looking at her! She talks to me differently than she talks to the other guys. And a while back after she had not seem me in a while , she asked me the weirdest question out lound! Let's not forget the multiple tines we have body contact during the day and the last time she sat on my desk , she put her leg on mine. Also, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. I sexually attracted to her without a doubt. I want to kiss her and do other things...... Could she maybe like me back ? Or is it my limerence/crush / love making small insignifiact acts seem more grand than they actually are?
salparadise Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Let's not forget the multiple tines we have body contact during the day and the last time she sat on my desk , she put her leg on mine. I want to kiss her and do other things...... Could she maybe like me back ? Of course she does. Kiss her man!
Author sash11 Posted May 20, 2014 Author Posted May 20, 2014 Clarification: Of all the desks in class , she sits on top of mine , and then puts her leg on mine for 1-2 minutes.
Oggie_23 Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 I would give it a shot! What do you have to lose? Just talk to her and see if she has the same feelings. You are young and many people can come and go but some make it forever and are HS sweethearts.
littleplanet Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Okay. You've always had a crush on her. That's your first clue. Her actions around you obviously betray some form of attraction. (She doesn't seem to dislike you) So.......get over your own astonishment at her gorgeousness, and go find out how she feels......about romance. In particular, romance with you. If she's cool with that - the rest is easy. (At least, it should be.) Remember, you can crush your own confidence a thousand times a day. She can boost your confidence in 5 seconds. It all starts with you liking each other. That isn't so difficult to establish, if it's true. I met my first girlfriend when I was 16. I walked her home from a dance (surrounded by a bunch of her friends, not mine.) When we got to her driveway......they all egged us on to kiss goodnight. I was deep-chilled. I'd never kissed a girl before. She stepped up to meet the challenge. I couldn't back down. So I kissed her. Why did all that work? We liked each other, and we knew it. (We'd only known each other about 3 hours, at that point.) But you could have knocked me over with a feather, that night.......................
Author sash11 Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 Thanks a lot for the advise. Do you know how I can talk with her relatively calmly? I'm pretty sure she knows I have feelings for her , so everytime we speak I feel a little nervous. Although, she's pretty interested in our conversations.
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