Author xxJuliexx Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 You better figure out a way to climb out of your shell if you want to maintain any kind of a relationship with him or any other guy. You just can't blow someone off on a whim because your shy. What is so hard about going to a sporting event and watching him being carried of the field on everyone's shoulders including the other team because he's the second coming of "The Worlds Most interesting Man" for the way he describes himself. It's not like your out there in a cheerleaders outfit with pom poms. Go and enjoy the day then you guys can find a place and drink a couple of Dos Equis. Lol! It's hard to explain, but yeah I am that shy. Plus I had nobody to go with, and I didn't want to go by myself. That would be ever worse for me. But I see what you mean and you have a good point! And the Dos Equis sounds great!!! Haha Thanks! Disclaimer: I'm male. If I were a chick, I'd tell the guy I can't make it to the game, and then throw him a rope by offering to meet outside of his baseball game. Its a power move. Make him go out of his way and out of his element if he wants you. Yeah I know what you mean, but honestly he invited me multiple times and I turned down all of them. I think I blew him off before, too! I always got out of it though, but I know that is not right and I shouldn't let my insecurities and anxieties get to me. He has invited me out on dates and such it's just I always declined. He invited me to a lot of places and I would always decline him. So I don't know. But thank you!
ExpatInItaly Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Yeah, I know. I did blow him off, because of my insecurities and anxieties. I feel really bad though, cause he invited me multiple times, and I always said I had to do something and got out of it, and I finally agree to go and then I blow it and don't show up. I feel like a jackass to be honest. He got his phone today I think, so hopefully he will contact me, but I think that's why he put his new number in my phone, cause he probably doesn't remember mine. Cause he grabbed my phone the other day and said "Here I put my new number in your phone, but I am not getting my phone till Monday (I think that's what he said)" So I don't know if I should contact him, or not. Just so he has my number. Or if I should wait for him to contact me. I am so confused. lol. But I do know the other guys on his team, so I mean it wouldn't be that bad right? I could always talk to them, haha. But I see what you mean, thanks! Girl, grow a set of cojones and call him! Explain to him yourself why you didn't go (again!) to his game on Sunday. Then ask to meet him sometime soon. The ball is in your court, in my opinion. You are the one who flaked so there's no sense waiting around for him to get in touch. If a guy didn't show up to an event you invited him to, would you really be inclined to reach out? Probably not. You want it, go get it! 1
Zahara Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 I did blow him off, because of my insecurities and anxieties. I feel really bad though, cause he invited me multiple times, and I always said I had to do something and got out of it, and I finally agree to go and then I blow it and don't show up. ^^^ This ^^^. He's probably so tired of your excuses that he didn't even care to address it after your friend sent the email. It's probably getting old for him. 1
hasaquestion Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Yeah, I know. I did blow him off, because of my insecurities and anxieties. I feel really bad though, cause he invited me multiple times, and I always said I had to do something and got out of it, and I finally agree to go and then I blow it and don't show up. I feel like a jackass to be honest. He got his phone today I think, so hopefully he will contact me, but I think that's why he put his new number in my phone, cause he probably doesn't remember mine. Cause he grabbed my phone the other day and said "Here I put my new number in your phone, but I am not getting my phone till Monday (I think that's what he said)" So I don't know if I should contact him, or not. Just so he has my number. Or if I should wait for him to contact me. I am so confused. lol. But I do know the other guys on his team, so I mean it wouldn't be that bad right? I could always talk to them, haha. But I see what you mean, thanks! .... do you want him or not?
Author xxJuliexx Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 ^^^ This ^^^. He's probably so tired of your excuses that he didn't even care to address it after your friend sent the email. It's probably getting old for him. True! Cause he invited me to a lot of places and I turned him down...so that maybe it. .... do you want him or not? It's hard to explain, it's like I do then I don't. Sometimes he'll do things that are messed up and makes me step back but for some reason I am drawn to him and really like his personality and him. I don't know I go back and forth. It's so complicated, I don't know what to think!
Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 what a douchebag, forget him! go onto someone else. don't go to his game or nothing! If he wants to be a baby and pout then let him ****ing pout. You did what you thought was best, and he doesn't have to be so ****ing rude to just ignore you like that.....jesus.....even if he was awkward he could've said something real quick, to at least acknowledge you or acknowledge the fact that you care. he could've just said it's alright or tell her not to worry or no big deal...I mean anything! and all he could go on about was his stupid ass game? **** THAT GUY! HE'S A LOSER! A STRIAGHT UP LOSER! And I am pretty sure he sucks too, he is probably not that good of player, hahahaha. seriously don't show up, he is an *******! he didn't care that you weren't there. You feel bad for him? I feel bad for you cause you seem to be too nice to even be putting up with this douchebag and you seem to be too nice to even send him that message. He shouldn't have had the privilege of you validating why you weren't there. You should have let him stew and think about it, I just feel bad that he responded to you that way, he's a ****ing jerk, and you seem to be a caring person so go to the guy that will actually appreciate your kindness.
bubbaganoosh Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Girl, grow a set of cojones and call him! If she did that..........................then she would be a guy. Bad. very bad.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 If she did that..........................then she would be a guy. Bad. very bad. I respectfully disagree. I am a woman too. She flaked on him. If she wants to redeem herself, she should explain herself why she blew him off, not send an apology through a third party on FB, for heaven's sake.
David87 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Call the guy and talk to him....explain why you didn't make it to the game.
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