yuesko Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 I am attracted to a girl in a coffee shop, I get up courage to speak to her and if we can be a friend. I know I am so stupid and made a big mistake. She also gave me her phone number when I ask her. In the meantime, I msg her few times but our conservations within greetings (such as how are you, nice of seeing you, have a great day., how's up) etc. Few days later, I ask her if she has any plans on the weekend and she replied me "oh yep I have plans with friends already". At that time, I feel she doesn't expect I will ask her out at all. I don't know if she interest me or not, or just treat me as friend. Hope you can give me some advices.
dontgo Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 Ha, she gave you her phone number.... she is expecting you to ask her out. Nike>>Just Do It 1
Assasda Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 You probably killed it for yourself by with the time wasting "how are you?" texts. Foolish timewasting How you save this, is tell her a time and a date that you are doing something, and tell her that you'd like her to join you. If she says no, Tell her to call you when she's free and want to have some fun, then, move on 1
Dallers Posted May 17, 2014 Posted May 17, 2014 There is only one way to find out. Why not at least try. Dating is a funny old game. Recently two of the girls I wanted to go out with, one I cut out all the niceties and went in for the kill and even though she showed interest it didn't happen. The other I kept the niceties in and went in the for kill and again nothing and this girl even came onto me! There really is no way of finding out unless you ask. Word of warning if you ask and the games then start she was just flattered and happy to accept the attention and not sure of what she wants. Delete the number and start again. Ask her, then go about your day.
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