Babolat Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 I was only talking about the communicating aspect. Everything else is great Sigh, you did not hear me. No, the current communication not aligning with the pre-sex communication is NOT normal. No matter how much you want it to be normal, it's not.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 If a guy really likes you, and you respond well to the cute texts and so on, he will keep them coming. If he doesn't, he's not really smitten with you - just enjoying the ride. 1
Zahara Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 Yeah I am in a large city like NY with similar rules. But really my post was mainly about lack of cute texts lately not the exclusivity thing since I don't want that before I leave either. Personally Starla, I would think so early in the game the cute texts would still be coming if he was into you, regardless of whether you've had sex or not. 2
Babolat Posted May 15, 2014 Posted May 15, 2014 You do have a point which may be the issue I guess. I just don't see us being in a relationship right now it is seriously way too early, but maybe when I get back if he is still around.... Falls off chair, hits floor and says "Another thread like this?!" OP, you seem very into this guy. COMMUNICATE with him what your intent is, and figure it out for yourself before you do. I was flirting and sexting with my ex gf the entire 12 months we were together. It was nothing for her to say something like "I am very horny, can't wait to come over, you have been warned!" and this was 8+ months into the relationship. I look for changes in established communication patterns, in myself and them. If you texted every morning, every night, and that pattern changes, somethign is up. If you texted each other 20 times a day, and now it's once, something is up. If you got a "Good monring!" every day, and now you don't, something is up. If he was taking you out for dinner 2 times a week, now once every few weeks, something is up.
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