Hugo112211 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Ok so there is this girl in high school who I am starting to like and I have a feeling that she likes me as well. Firstly, she is very flirty with me both physically and verbally. More so than any of her guy friends. Once when I felt a little bit down, she noticed I had a more downcast facial expression and asked me what's wrong and tried to cheer me up. So she cares about me. She also notices if I don't come to class and asks me why I didn't come and also notices me in other things. I asked her if she wanted to hangout with me before and she agreed happily (over text). It wasn't a one on one due to an unexpected third wheel who none us invited (complicated). She said she had fun. This time, I ask her if she wants to hangout again but just us two over text. She said she couldn't and she didn't feel like moving anywhere due to "women problems" which she said. Assuming that it was just an excuse to not go, I texted her "If you don't want to then it's fine". She later replied "We could but just not next week either" She proceeded to text me that she is on her period. She wasn't lying because she didn't come to school for some time. One week later, I ask her in person if she wants to go. She asks when and I tell her this week. She said let's go next week because "I'm tired this week" (She is a very tired person in general and always sleeps to a point where it's like a hibernation lol). What could this mean. Please help, I am in confusion
luvshaq Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 It sounds like she's unsure of herself. She doesn't wanna commit to anything, even a simple date. If she can't make up her mind soon, move on from her.
d0nnivain Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 In adult women rescheduling means she's busy, plain & simple. When a woman isn't interested they don't give you an alternative date / time This girl is still a teenager. Very few teenagers know their own minds. They are immature. That's not a crack /insult but a fact because you are all still growing, changing & learning. I don't think she knows what she wants. She probably likes you but may be scared of a one on one activity with you. Group things are safer. mention some place you are going to be -- the game after school, the Mall, the library & see if she shows up. Get more comfortable around her before you try again for a one on one date.
Assasda Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Sounds like youre turning needy. Good way to turn her off
Author Hugo112211 Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 So I asked if she wanted to go next Monday and she said ok. Seemed pretty quiet when she said ok though. What can this mean? Btw thanks for your answer
Assasda Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Sounds like youre turning needy. Good way to turn her off Dont wanna pay attention to me?
Author Hugo112211 Posted May 14, 2014 Author Posted May 14, 2014 Dont wanna pay attention to me? If I was turning needy, she wouldn't have agreed now would she? Also, if I was turning needy, she would be trying to avoid me a lot when she is actually doing the opposite
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