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Hello, I am new here and i would like to share my story with you.

 

So a friend of mine introduced me to a guy during December and we starting texting each other.He told me that he would be able to meet me during January but he didn't tell me the reason why he didn't have time back then.By the way i am studying in Korea and the guy is Korean. So when he came to Seoul we started dating and a week later he asked me to be his girlfriend.I thought he was a good guy so i accepted.On the 3rd day of our relationship suddenly he said that he would go to his hometown (3 hours away) in order to find a job but he said not to worry because he would come to see me once a week.I didn't like it at first but again i accepted.

 

During our relationship everything was perfect.He was so kind tender and attentive and i was the first girlfriend that introduced to his parents.We were very happy.One day he said that he couldn't come because he didn't have money.Ii was upset but i said that we could see each other next week.A month later he couldn't come again because of money.Again i waited. A week later it was his turn to come (because even though he said that he would be the one to come to Seoul, i went to his hometown many times, spending money that i don't have since i am only a student)but he called and said that he had a problem with his work and he had to go.

 

I was so upset but i decided to go there because i wanted to talk to him.He said that we would see each other the next week and that he wanted to say something to me. ( i would have to go anyways because i had to take an exam at a university there). On the same day he told me that in order to come with me to my country in the summer he gambled some money but lost. My family has lost a house and a restaurant because of gambling so i told him to break up.I was suspicious.How can he live with his parents and still not having money to come to Seoul?He accepted the break up,A few days later before going to his hometown to take the exam i texted him (i didn't know the no contact rule) and asked him to meet up and talk.He replied that there is no reason for me to go there anymore and that he was sorry. The day when i went there i texted him again said that i really didn't want to break up but i was afraid that we would face worse problems in the future (he said that if everything would go well he wanted to get married with me two years later) and i apologized.

 

I was hoping that he would tell me to meet up but he only read the message and didn't reply.Again some days later i texted him that in a relationship there are bad moments too, couples say bad things to each other and that we both had apologized.I said that i wanted to try again, apologized for not trusting him (that was the only reason that he would get angry when we were together) and promised that from now on that wouldn't happen again.Finally i told him that i wanted to know what were his thoughts.He replied saying to talk next time because he had an accident (and he really did) so i thought i should give him time.A week later i asked him if he was feeling better because he was a little hurt in the accident.Never replied.From that day on i decided to change.I wouldn't talk to him again,i started going out with friends and generally looked like a happy person on facebook.

 

Yesterday i went on a trip and uploaded a photo.Some hours later i saw that he had deleted me!!! He must be so jealous because i look totally fine! Otherwise why he deleted me now, a month after our break up? Also i think that he has lost his job (maybe that is the thing that he wanted to talk to me about before the break up) and if that's the case of course we can't be together if he doesn't have money to meet up with me. Now don't even now if i want to try again.He said that he wanted to make a serious relationship but i see that this is not the case.What are your thoughts?

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Hello.My name is Vicky and i am new here and i would like to share my story with you.

 

So a friend of mine introduced me to a guy during December and we starting texting each other.He told me that he would be able to meet me during January but he didn't tell me the reason why he didn't have time back then.

By the way i am studying in Korea and the guy is korean.

So when he came to Seoul we started dating and a week later he asked me to be his girlfriend.I thought he was a good guy so i accepted.On the 3rd day of our relationship suddenly he said that he would go to his hometown (3 hours away) in order to find a job but he said not to worry because he would come to see me once a week.I didn't like it at first but again i accepted.

 

During our relationship everything was perfect.He was so kind tender and attentive and i was the first girlfriend that introduced to his parents.We were very happy.

One day he said that he couldn't come because he didn't have money.Ii was upset but i said that we could see each other next week.A month later he couldn't come again because of money.Again i waited. A week later it was his turn to come (because even though he said that he would be the one to come to Seoul, i went to his hometown many times, spending money that i don't have since i am only a student)but he called and said that he had a problem with his work and he had to go.

I was so upset but i decided to go there because i wanted to talk to him.He said that we would see each other the next week and that he wanted to say something to me. ( i would have to go anyways because i had to take an exam at a university there).On the same day he told me that in order to come with me to my country in the summer he gambled some money but lost.

My family has lost a house and a restaurant because of gambling so i told him to break up.I was suspicious.How can he live with his parents and still not having money to come to Seoul?

 

He accepted the break up,A few days later before going to his hometown to take the exam i texted him (i didn't know the no contact rule) and asked him to meet up and talk.He replied that there is no reason for me to go there anymore and that he was sorry.

The day when i went there i texted him again said that i really didn't want to break up but i was afraid that we would face worse problems in the future (he said that if everything would go well he wanted to get married with me two years later) and i apologized.I was hoping that he would tell me to meet up but he only read the message and didn't reply

.Again some days later i texted him that in a relationship there are bad moments too, couples say bad things to each other and that we both had apologized.I said that i wanted to try again, apologized for not trusting him (that was the only reason that he would get angry when we were together) and promised that from now on that wouldn't happen again.

Finally i told him that i wanted to know what were his thoughts.He replied saying to talk next time because he had an accident (and he really did) so i thought i should give him time.A week later i asked him if he was feeling better because he was a little hurt in the accident.Never replied.

From that day on i decided to change.I wouldn't talk to him again,i started going out with friends and generally looked like a happy person on facebook. Yesterday i went on a trip and uploaded a photo.Some hours later i saw that he had deleted me!!! He must be so jealous because i look totally fine! Otherwise why he deleted me now, a month after our break up?

 

Also i think that he has lost his job (maybe that is the thing that he wanted to talk to me about before the break up) and if that's the case of course we can't be together if he doesn't have money to meet up with me.

 

Now don't even now if i want to try again.He said that he wanted to make a serious relationship but i see that this is not the case.What are your thoughts?

 

-Op in long distance relationship

-Boyfriend starts to fall through on plans making excuses and what no

-Boyfriend admits to gambling, op has history with it

-Op breaks up with him

-Op texts him afterwards, he shows no sign of caring

-Op apologizes for everything, and gets no response

-Ex deletes op from facebook

-Op not sure if she wants to try again even though ex is clearly not interested.

 

thoughts op?

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