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The 'I still want to be friends but don't' rule


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Yeah it sucks that people make statements like that and yet do something completely different, but that's how the world is. There are lots of people who are dishonest and inconsiderate, and who will only do what's convenient for them. You have to accept that and learn to cope with it, as well as learn how to brush people like that off, because if that's how they treat you, then they really aren't worth your time.

 

She can't explain herself because she simply doesn't have an answer for you--any answer she gives you will be wishy-washy at best. Again, I know this from personal experience. She simply doesn't want to talk to you anymore, and she gave you the friends line most likely hoping that you would get the hint and stop bothering her.

 

Stop questioning and rationalizing the situation...you're not going to get the answer that you want to hear.

 

I appreciate your input. It's just a very strange situation. I keep receiving different opinions form different people, such as wait until exams are over, she feels awkward and doesn't know what to do, perhaps try & solve it, move on.

It has played around with my head, she's just an awkward & pretty immature girl which I should've took that into account. Perhaps I should just focus on myself

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