Onehit Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 (edited) Hi I've been on 15 dates with a girl who's the same age. We've taken things slow but have started to increase the intensity, meeting friends, daily texts, presents... She's a virgin so I have never put any pressure on her to come back, the issue is she hasn't told me she's a virgin - I only know from the mutual friend who set us up. I have been hoping she brings it up but hasn't so far. Is it unfair if I ask her what her thoughts were on intimacy? We're both 25 and I'm more then happy to wait, but would like to talk about the topic so on same wavelength but don't want it to add any pressure. Edited May 11, 2014 by Onehit
FitChick Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 You should be escalating physical affection in a nonthreatening way. Be consistently affectionate but then stop and see if she initiates touching. Then you will know she likes it and can continue slowly intensifying. Read the Kama Sutra. If I recall correctly there is a chapter about initiating a virgin.
Assasda Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 I cant believe that you guys havent talked about that subject before. Sure ask her
bluegreen Posted May 11, 2014 Posted May 11, 2014 Ask her to : take a shower with you , stay overnight, or non least threatening which side of bed she likes to sleep on? She answers you make cute joke about keeping that side free for her any time she wants to and take it from there either by conversation or ..... But as I suspect this is religions reasons thing and I can always admire people who stick to their convictions and if this is so then you do not even need to wonder anymore.
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