cshim Posted May 10, 2014 Posted May 10, 2014 I've been hanging out a lot with a girl recently and I think we hit it off pretty well. No official dating but lots of mutual interests and great conversations. I like her a lot but it's hard to get a solid read from her because she's a bit shy. Anyways, last Tuesday I texted her asking if she wanted to meet up Saturday night (hoping to go drinking with her so I can see how she behaves in a more relaxed setting). This is pretty much how things play out: Me, Tues 6pm: Are you free Saturday evening? Her, Thurs 6am: Sorry, I'm going bouldering with my high school friend on Saturday. Are you free on Sunday? Me, Thurs 11pm (super long day, plus my phone died): No problem, Sunday would be great! Her, Fri 7pm: Actually I have an appointment Sunday morning. Are you free now? Me, Fri 7:20 pm: Yep, just got back from work. Where are you? Her, Fri 7:30 pm: Sorry, I'm already on the train back home. How about Sunday night? Me, Fri 7:35 pm: Sure, sounds good. I didn't get a response from her that day so I got impatient and said she seemed busy, maybe she should spend Sunday (Mother's Day) with her family. Also suggested meeting up next week instead. Still no reply. I really like spending time with her but this lapse in communication kind of irritated me. How should I read into this? Is it a sign of indifference or is she just acting silly? On one hand, she took two days to reply and kept scrambling her plans. On the other hand, she tried (kind of?) to fit me in somehow. I'm confused... For what it's worth, we're both 23 and work full-time. We live fairly far apart though.
Omei Posted May 10, 2014 Posted May 10, 2014 If she doesn't follow through on Sunday I'd just text "You let me know when you're free" and then I wouldn't ever text again unless she replied and just let it fall out and move on.
Assasda Posted May 10, 2014 Posted May 10, 2014 Call her on the phone. Make a joke about, how you 2 cant find time. Then set a time
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