ladybug028 Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 Quick summary. My ex and I dated for a few months. During that time, things moved quick and we were both head over heals in love. Out of nowhere, he decided to end things. He didn't move out right away, I had to tell him to leave. Anyway, we hadn't talked for a few weeks then he texted to "check on me." We've been texting since even though he's in another relationship. We are very flirty and he's admitted that he misses the things we once shared. Today my cousin had a baby. He shows up at the hospital with flowers for her and we talked for hours. This was the first time we've seen each other since he left which made it kinda hard. We both left the hospital at the same time, he hugged me bye and we went our separate ways. Before I could leave the parking lot, he texted me and said how good it was seeing me and that I looked great. Here's my question. Is he stringing me along or does it sound like there's still some feedings there? I don't want to read into anything but just wish I knew what he was thinking or wanting from me.
Ordinaryday Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 I'm sorry to say this, but from the very limited info you have provided it sounds like he is just keeping his 'options open', that is trying to keep things cool with you so he will have a 'fallback' if his current squeeze doesnt work out. don't settle for being someone's fallback option. 1
Strength in Healing Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 he's in another relationship. ...The end. 1
Author ladybug028 Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 I'm sorry to say this, but from the very limited info you have provided it sounds like he is just keeping his 'options open', that is trying to keep things cool with you so he will have a 'fallback' if his current squeeze doesnt work out. don't settle for being someone's fallback option. Sorry I tried keeping it short! Thanks for your advice.
lostnlovely Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 From my experience , this sounds like .. maybe he was entertaining the idea of being with someone else , or he was already talking to her, while you both were still together. Now that you guys are apart and he is with that person , maybe he realizes that it wasn't worth it and is trying to be with you again.. or yes he could possibly be stringing you along . Just be upfront and ask him what he's doing. Tell him not to play with your emotions because he was the one who broke up with you .. 1
bluegreen Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 He dumped you is still in another relationship and is preparing territory to cheat on her with YOU then will go back to her or next victim. No matter how cute charming and can fake nice he is guy is scum !!!
Author ladybug028 Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 From my experience , this sounds like .. maybe he was entertaining the idea of being with someone else , or he was already talking to her, while you both were still together. Now that you guys are apart and he is with that person , maybe he realizes that it wasn't worth it and is trying to be with you again.. or yes he could possibly be stringing you along . Just be upfront and ask him what he's doing. Tell him not to play with your emotions because he was the one who broke up with you ..[/quote. Thank you!
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