hopeless7 Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 We dated for a year and things got rocky toward the end. I felt neglected and I pushed him away I guess with my neediness and he said I changed. He started to get emotionally vacant. Dumped me. Said he wanted to be friends. I agreed then disagreed and went on an emotional tirage which probably pushed him away more. After he started talking to me less I did no contact. I'm hurt a week went by and he hasn't even tried to contact me. Like does he even care... He used to so much. The times we've never talked hes said "I didn't talk to you because I was nervous of how you'd react" "you could have contacted me" Or maybe he plain just dosent care. I know he's moved on probably. He's not much of the chasing type. I guess a small part of me really misses him and wants us to be together one day... I'm so beyond hurt he seemed to just stop talking to ne less and less
MidwestUSA Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 You went no contact and are now wondering why he hasn't contacted you? He's moving on. You need to do the same.
d0nnivain Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 If he was a nice guy to begin with, I'm sure he cares in the sense that he doesn't want you to be in pain & he wishes he wasn't the source of your pain. Most people don't want to affirmatively hurt their EXs. He doesn't care in the sense that he wants you back or that he will take any affirmative steps to make you feel better. For now, staying NC is your best bet. It will help you heal. Don't worry about what he's doing or feeling. As you work through the break up, think about what went wrong & how you can change your behavior to avoid making the same mistakes in your next relationship.
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