Mjm1014 Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 (edited) Met this girl at a bar two months ago and we've been keeping in contact ever since. The day after I met her I moved to a different city for airline training. Anyways she seemed really into me for the first month but ever since then she's been acting weird..she texts me short answers or doesn't respond but if I go a day without texting her she will text me and see how I'm doing. I do call her, but half the time she sounds bored on the phone. Weird thing is she has never called me once in two months and if it goes to voice mail she won't call me back..Also she deletes me on instagram then re adds me then deletes me again...it's not something that really bugs me but I feel like that's a bit odd to do? I've tried talking to her about her conflicting actions and she says I'm over thinking but I'm starting to get bored and feel like she's all about the chase or their is someone else. Am I wrong for feeling like in two/three months if she actually liked me she would have at least called me once? Still not a day goes by she doesn't text me in the morning to wish me a good day when I wake up Edited May 5, 2014 by Mjm1014 Had to add a detail
ExpatInItaly Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Met this girl at a bar two months ago and we've been keeping in contact ever since. The day after I met her I moved to a different city for airline training. Anyways she seemed really into me for the first month but ever since then she's been acting weird..she texts me short answers or doesn't respond but if I go a day without texting her she will text me and see how I'm doing. I do call her, but half the time she sounds bored on the phone. Weird thing is she has never called me once in two months and if it goes to voice mail she won't call me back..Also she deletes me on instagram then re adds me then deletes me again...it's not something that really bugs me but I feel like that's a bit odd to do? I've tried talking to her about her conflicting actions and she says I'm over thinking but I'm starting to get bored and feel like she's all about the chase or their is someone else. Am I wrong for feeling like in two/three months if she actually liked me she would have at least called me once? Still not a day goes by she doesn't text me in the morning to wish me a good day when I wake up My first thought is that she's seeing someone else too and doesn't want these two worlds to collide. (Hence the IG deletions)
d0nnivain Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Don't do anything. Literally, don't do anything. Let her keep texting you but don't reach out. At some point, if she comes to you to ask what's wrong you can mention the conflicting behaviors you experienced & ask her to state what she wants. In all likelihood, she'll simply fade out of your life. You go out & enjoy your airline training.
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