natwilliams Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 I meet a lot of nice women while trying to get out there in the dating world. The problem is I realize most of the time it doesn't work out. Thats the truth. And currently I'm still in search of a good GF. But how come all the fails have to go so cold?? Why do girls just assume that all I want is sex or nothing. It really would be nice to keep some of these companions for going to the movies, parties, whatever. Is there something I can do to encourage more female friends, and I really do just mean friends? Esp with attractive woman with whom I wouldn't mind the vague remote possibility of a future hookup or two?
Hopeful30 Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Um..................... You're basically asking how to gather an entourage of attractive women so that you can use them for movies/parties/sex? LOL Good luck with that. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 I meet a lot of nice women while trying to get out there in the dating world. The problem is I realize most of the time it doesn't work out. Thats the truth. And currently I'm still in search of a good GF. But how come all the fails have to go so cold?? Why do girls just assume that all I want is sex or nothing. It really would be nice to keep some of these companions for going to the movies, parties, whatever. Is there something I can do to encourage more female friends, and I really do just mean friends? Esp with attractive woman with whom I wouldn't mind the vague remote possibility of a future hookup or two? Because they can likely sense this, and it's a turn-off for most women. 2
David87 Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Because they can likely sense this, and it's a turn-off for most women. They definitely can sense that. And usualy girls want the whole package not a pice or two. 2
Assasda Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 I meet a lot of nice women while trying to get out there in the dating world. The problem is I realize most of the time it doesn't work out. Thats the truth. And currently I'm still in search of a good GF. But how come all the fails have to go so cold?? Why do girls just assume that all I want is sex or nothing. It really would be nice to keep some of these companions for going to the movies, parties, whatever. Is there something I can do to encourage more female friends, and I really do just mean friends? Esp with attractive woman with whom I wouldn't mind the vague remote possibility of a future hookup or two? I think you can do this. You just have to have a fun asmosphere that girls want to be around. You've got to know what kinda girls you wanna hang out with, get in their zone, become their friends, and Bobs your uncle, you could go out with them. Its all a matter of how you carry yourself and what kind of vibe you give off. If you have a "Life of the Party" type of personality, you'll have no problem. But after this is done, you'll have to ask yourself if you really want this
Author natwilliams Posted May 5, 2014 Author Posted May 5, 2014 Is it true that most women really want the whole package? I sense from a lot of women that if you show too much focus on them that too is a turn off. They actually prefer to see that you have options, as long as you're discreet about it, not texting other girls in her face. More and more though I'm realizing g that girls really do like a certain point even early on a confident committed pursuit, not a wimpy reverse psychology effort. One last thing about this ...part if the whole reason I got into pursuing multpiple women and never falling in love with one too early is because I found they would often break my heart. A couple times this really set me back in life. So now I keep my options open to avoid love, since I don't trust women to accept and reciprocate my love.. And to have some fun. But im. hoping that the right one will come along and we'll just know that we can both fall into each others arms and forget about our defenses. Until then i have to keep this defense without using it so much that it scares most women away as other posters mentioned above.
GemmaUK Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 I meet a lot of nice women while trying to get out there in the dating world. The problem is I realize most of the time it doesn't work out. Thats the truth. And currently I'm still in search of a good GF. But how come all the fails have to go so cold?? Why do girls just assume that all I want is sex or nothing. It really would be nice to keep some of these companions for going to the movies, parties, whatever. Is there something I can do to encourage more female friends, and I really do just mean friends? Esp with attractive woman with whom I wouldn't mind the vague remote possibility of a future hookup or two? 'Why do girls just assume that all I want is sex or nothing' Maybe because the attractive ones get the vibe that you 'wouldn't mind the vague remote possibility of a future hookup or two?' Is it true that most women really want the whole package? I sense from a lot of women that if you show too much focus on them that too is a turn off. They actually prefer to see that you have options, as long as you're discreet about it, not texting other girls in her face. From the above, I'm thinking you don't understand the phrase 'whole package' It's not about focusing on someone at all. It's about physical attraction, intellect levels, morals and values, lifestyle, health and fitness..as in the 'whole' person and who they are rather than someone looking great but having zero intelligence (as an extreme example).
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