Avenue Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 (edited) What should I do? I'm confused if she's not interested in me, playing hard or simply wants to avoid me Ok so it's been month seen we first met. Me and her are both in college. We've been out on date three times and on third time we kissed. We had great times, but that was our last date together and we haven't been seeing each other much for almost 5 weeks now. Lately and since then I feels like she hasn't been readily available to me. I don't text her or call her often as I'd only when I've purpose. As I'd text or call her from times to times for date, but she'd always already have plan with her friends or have part job on that day or assignments to do. She'd always apologise to me when it happens and reply with some considerable response. I'm always the one who initiate the contact. Sometimes it would take her hours to response, and sometimes even gone unanswered (mostly on weekends). I'd run into her from time to time, maybe once a week. And she'd seem a eagerly happy to see me and nervous because her friend always around. I haven't been able to get quality time alone with her as I always met her when's about to have class or go home. But it seems that her friends seems all winding up and giggling when we're together and try to make excuse for us to be alone. What frustrates me is I been trying for weeks! And yet still we've not been out for weeks or have quality conversation. I don't want to be needy/clingy, but sometimes I feel like she rather hangs out with her friends than me. And she isn't responding enough on the phone. Should I confront her about this? If so how should do this? Should I tell her how this made me feels and how I feels about her? Edited May 4, 2014 by Avenue
Gaeta Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 What should I do? I'm confused if she's not interested in me, playing hard or simply wants to avoid me Should I confront her about this? If so how should do this? Should I tell her how this made me feels and how I feels about her? No, there is nothing to confront her about. This is not your girlfriend she does not owe you anything. You did your best to get a 4th date and nothing came out of it. All those time she declined she did not offer an alternative time she was free, that is indicative she is not interested in pursuing any further. A girl that would be interested would say ' I am so sorry I am busy Saturday but Wednesday I am free'. Stop pursuing her. What ever it is, whether it's playing hard to get or she's not interested, you've done enough. There are other girls out there more worthy of your attention. 1
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