yorozo Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 So the guy I have been hanging out with and that said he "was falling in love with me" and knows I am leaving this upcoming weekend for my home state until August, and he will be gone till nearly January, texted me on Friday. (Monday is when I last saw him and he said he was falling for me) he asked me what I was doing and I said nothing. He said he wanted to hang out with someone and I said yeah I'm free. But he doesn't have a car so he was like aw but I can't come get you, no ride. But the he mentioned a cab to come over, I told him that he couldn't come in my room since my roommates were busy but I told him we could still chill around. And then he was like "idk kinda just wanted to do stuff with you" and ended up not coming over. Both him and I were drunk texting each other and I told him I wanted to see him, but yeah there was nothing I could do since there was no ride. Today the next day I was texting him and said I wanted to see him tonight He just said "I knowwwww...." And I said "yeahhhh" He replied "idk...." Do you think if he really did want to see me he would find a way? This is like the last opportunity for me to see him and he is aware and mentioned he wanted to see me yesterday but then nothing. And now he knows I want to see him today but still nothing about him coming to get me or anything.
Assasda Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 this is such a childish question. If you want to smash the guy so bad, why dont you find a way to get to him. Gosh 1
ja123 Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 Maybe he's pulling back because you are going away, and he doesn't want to become more attached. How do you feel about him? Are you also falling in love?
Haydaman712 Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 Sweetheart. These are not mixed signals. Nor are they complicated messages to interpret. It is stuff like that this that drives men insane. What he's telling you is exactly what he means. Look at it from his perspective. Any guy who's attempted to start dating a girl knows that "dates" or "hang-outs" where the girl in question will have friends present is a big no-no. It just screams "armigawd lets just be friends." Instead of being able to connect with you intimately he has to deal with your personal praetorian guard and girl FBI agents. Ain't nobody got time for that. When he reaches out saying that he wants to see you and the feeling is mutual, make it easy for him!
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