LouisAlexander Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 I am a guy 32 , she is a 40 year old single mom. Not only is this the only thing but we are from different countries aswell. We started skyping a lot but since we both lead simple lives we dont have a ton to discuss about daily but we had good times and laughs. Now i do realise after getting advice from tons of people, i am not being realistic here. We where bf and gf before our meet, and from her side things got sexual if you know what i mean. ive read that women in their 40 years are in their prime so that might have explained it pretty well! When we did meet i was unorganized, i was about to move and got very sick at the time. So it turned out to be a disaster, i was not myself at all and it felt really ackward being sick also. I remember nothing is real until you meet eachother! But that was mostly from my side..if id be better it would turn out a lot better im sure. Once i got home we decided to re meet in a cpl months when im moved and got a bit o cash to take her out! But things took a turn, i got scared and approached a friend of her, the worst thing to do is to re do this mistake once again. She decided to close contact for a while i wrote her an email but no reply as of yet. Is this worth the waiting honestly? And is it fair of her to keep me waiting for a while..She said we are not fitting together online...yet i know i can win her back in time. I am head over heels secretly still hoping it would turn into something again, i would do anything for her, does she even realise there's a younger guy waiting for her.. I have no idea whats going on in her mind really? Why would you fall so in love then just leave it where it is...I still love this woman i can wait but why not just have a good talk and re meet instead of this horrible waiting on her side. Perhaps i should leave it where it is for now, and forget about her. And move on and be realstic, on the other side i still love her a lot and i am hoping we could get back together slowly and have a re meet. What should i do here honestly.
Author LouisAlexander Posted April 30, 2014 Author Posted April 30, 2014 (edited) After reading all these topics maybe my case is irrelevant i dont know. After reading other topics i realise i have a long way to go, and have to wait and let time tell what happens. My obstacle seems of none importance reading all these threads. Not only is this a minor obstacle it feels like if this is already being a problem we have many obstacles to go in the future. And my topic seems of no value sorry that i posted this. I think its time to be realistic instead of fantasize about it constantly and just see what happens, again sry for posting a topic once again. Edited April 30, 2014 by LouisAlexander
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