gaius Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Neither of them sound very confident so I wouldn't blame yourself for those 2 conversations going nowhere. The one thing I did notice though is how you started both off asking them to remind you where you met. Pretend they're more memorable than that next time and don't ask. 1
lino Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Why do they have to work for it in a conversation? You sound a little entitled, which makes men think you are high maintenance, which makes men run or just use you for sex. Strongly agree here. From those conversations posted and some stuff you've written on here in the past, you seem very high maintenance. Making them work for the conversation? What effort are you putting in? Believe it or not but men are not on this planet solely to be your portable ATM and a donkey used to carry all your sh*t. We're people too.
KatZee Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 (edited) Oh i give up. I tried to make them work for it. It fails. I answer their questions eg: what are you doing this weekend? me -going house shopping, out with friends etc. I purposely dont ask a question back so they have to work for it. And then the convo just dies. Purposely not asking questions back isn't making someone "work for it." I'm not even quite sure what you mean here, or who gave you this tidbit of advice. The only think you're doing is putting up a brick wall, coming off self-absorbed and uninterested. No guy wants a girl he can't even have a conversation with and has to pull teeth in order to talk to. Of COURSE the convo dies if you don't reciprocate and ask questions back! Conversations don't just revolve around you, and what you're doing, and him finding out about YOU. It goes both ways, and just like you'd get bored if a guy didn't bother holding his end of the conversation and just deaded the conversation, that's the vibe these guys are getting. Edited April 30, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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