enchanted771 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Not sure if anyone else has this issue. In the past, Guys have lost interest because I became too needy and obsessed with the texting. Example: we text a few times then we stop. Well I have This need to do it nonstop and if he doesn't respond sometimes I get mad others paranoid. It gets boring to do that forever. Sometimes I would even ask if he's ignoring me! So it makes me look like I have nothing else going on but his texts. I know that will not keep a guy interested.
Fondue Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Occupy yourself with other things and leave your phone at home, in the car, whatever. Do this until you're comfortable enough without looking at your phone every 5minutes. You'll eventually break that umbilical cord and be less reliant on using your phone for everything in your life-- including the non-stop texting. In truth, I have lost my attraction to women due to over texting. There were several girls last summer that just texted ALL THE TIME. Constantly. I hated it so much.
preraph Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Here's the problem(s): 1) Texting is tedious for both parties, and at the end of it, they still don't really know much about the other person unless they meet and hang out a lot. 2) If what you do with your spare time is text, then you don't have anything interesting to text about. I mean, what do you say, "Oh, so and so texted me earlier and I texted her back?" Get out of the house without your smartphone and go do something real.
Author enchanted771 Posted April 29, 2014 Author Posted April 29, 2014 Occupy yourself with other things and leave your phone at home, in the car, whatever. Do this until you're comfortable enough without looking at your phone every 5minutes. You'll eventually break that umbilical cord and be less reliant on using your phone for everything in your life-- including the non-stop texting. In truth, I have lost my attraction to women due to over texting. There were several girls last summer that just texted ALL THE TIME. Constantly. I hated it so much. This is my point. He will indeed lose interest. When I give him space he asks if u miss him.
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