Going on a break....

[AlphaC]

 

 

Lol. If i wanting this man I would had been with him. I do not romantic like him, but he is a good friend.

 

 

OP, if your man has options, if he is a wanted man, you better believe he won't be back in a month. Once he samples some new fish, he won't be coming back to your place for dinner.

 

Good luck with that guy who has been chasing you the last two years, seems like you kept him on the back burner while anticipating this "break."

Peace

Edited April 30, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[Keenly]

Yeah the "giving this guy a chance because of the break " thing sounds incredibly unfair to that guy. A little ego boosting at the expense of another persons feelings isn't okay.

[Robert]

Let's keep the arguing out of this thread, all sides.

 

On topic posts and no more name calling.

 

Thanks

[faithfully]

Who idea was it for the break?

I know how I feel for him. I am in love with him, but the bull in our relationship is killing us. I don't want to continue the bull to only at the end hate one another.

 

It was his idea for the break and at the time i cudnt stop him so i agreed as we werent getting on 2 weeks prior to the break.

 

I know you love him, i loved mine and 1 thing ive learnt is if he really loved you like you loved him, he wouldnt be asking for a break.

 

In my eyes like i said its a way of slowly healing whilst your not there to distract him and to keep you on the side incase his plan A doesnt go through.

 

Finish him and move on babe. There are millions of men in this world. He is not that bloody special, he is not god!!!

[Chi townD]

Blah....I'm done with this thread anyway. You can't give advice to people that don't REALLY want advice.

 

 

She seems more excited at the prospect of dating other men than actually working on her relationship. So, if she's happy with that, then I'm out! Nothing more to do here!

[Iguanna]

A break for me means "I don't have the will to put on the effort and save our relationship". People these days have the wrong impression that relationships are easy to keep and everything should be accomplished without effort. In my relationship I never leave the house without trying to fix things. It's a rule for me and my bf, don't leave angry. We try and talk things through again and again, try to be calm and remember at all times that we love each other and we are in the same team, we are not enemies. A break of one month? No contact for one month? Doesn't he at least care how you are doing? It seems to me he was looking for an excuse to end this relationship. I can't imagine myself going on a break with my bf and not ask him daily if he has eaten, if he's ok, if he slept well etc. Love does not go away when people fight, unless fight was an excuse to state that love is long gone.

[Leigh 87]

I wouldn't be screwing anyone, and as long I didn't know he was screwing somebody in the process, again I wouldn't care.

 

Sex is sex. Some men need it. I don't want to deny him sex because I need a break from us. Anything you make taboo people want it more.

Will I date other men? Better believe it. School is almost over for me. I had zero of social life since January. I want to go out and mingle. But, I wont be giving up my booty. In that month if i fall in love with somebody else then it means we wasn't meant to be.... simple as that. I want to give him freedom. Nothing is wrong with that.

 

 

 

Whatever man..

 

I just lost a guy that I loved more than I love myself.

 

When a man is truly in love he doesn't need to get his fix. He wants to hold out any hope of working out his relationship.

 

When I, as a woman, am truly and utterly in love, it makes me sick being with another man:sick:

 

Sorry but I don't consider what you feel for this man to be love of the deepest sort. Not a chance.

 

Cannot believe you are so casual about dating and sex with other people:sick:

 

I could never allow a man I was truly in love with to do that.