drifter777 Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Flutter: you can brand me in your mind as an angry, bitter man - but you have no idea who I am. No one I know or who knows me would describe me the way you and some others here routinely do. The bottom line is that I've learned from all of my mistakes - whether how I handled infidelity or how to change a diaper. I'd do nearly everything differently if I could go back and do it over. I don't know why you continually attack me. If you don't like my opinions/posts don't let them upset you - ignore them.
Owl Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Owl ONLY YOU know whats best for your and YOUR MARRIAGE..... You however DO NOT KNOW WHAT WAS BEST FOR ME OR OTHERS WHO D.... I dont no of nor have i SEEN a post insisting you made an MISTAKE.. All of us here KNOW the PAIN of trying to R.....As well as the PAIN OF D. I again applaude your efforts to R AND WISH YOU MUCH HAPPINESS. Here's the thing...at no point have I ever indicated to ANYONE that divorce was the wrong thing to do in their case, nor that they'll end up forever unhappy if that's the path they take, or that their lives are in some way tarnished if they do. My issue is that folks who haven't reconciled try to insist that all of the above must be true in cases where folks have reconciled. From my perspective...there is no one solution to infidelity, nor do I agree with those that insist there must be. Especially when they don't follow their own advice. 2
suckerpunch55 Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 It's only been about a month for me and we both want the marriage to continue, but I don't really know yet, I am of the opinion she has not really let go of the OM mentally, and physically yet, only time will tell I guess.
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