Chris715 Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 I'll try to keep my story short. I started working with this girl about a month ago (she's 22, I'm 23) and we seemed to hit it off right away. It's one of those things where it's easy to talk to her, she seems to enjoy having me around, that kind of thing. At first glance it seems like I get TONS of signals that she likes me but wow have I been having a hard time getting a date with her, or doing anything with her for that matter. I asked her for her phone number at work, which she happily gave. Texted her the next day saying "Hey, it's Chris from work", something along those lines and we've been texting back and forth for the last couple of weeks, with her often initiating texts to me throughout the day. I asked her to go to a movie, from which I got a reply along the lines of "maybe, depending on how I feel after work tomorrow" and the next day she (at least appeared) to be full blown sick with a cold And we're supposed to be playing tennis today (we both really like tennis and used to play) but I'm assuming that's not happening since she didn't look much better at work yesterday. So what gives? Am I blowing things out of proportion? Is she subtly trying to show she's not interested? She seems really happy when I'm around talking to her, get's close to me, looks me in the eye, texts me lots after work, that sort of thing, so I think this is a case of getting some mixed signals? Outsiders perspective would be great.
Blaze997 Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 You don't have to "give up," but if she has cancelled on multiple outings, it's on her to counter-offer. If she is interested, she will. Your next move is to sit back and relax. 1
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